misterdiscretion2014

I have seen Ms. Rushton a number of times now, and should have posted this review sooner. She is an absolutely extraordinary woman who creates a fantasy world you will completely escape into, where you can pretend you are the only two people on earth. For anyone curious, she is everything you are imagining and more.

I think a pretty large part of what goes on between consenting adults in this world could technically be classified as wrong, but in the end, all that matters is that it feels right :D

This site makes it pretty clear it is for recommendations only, and that no explicit comments or details are to be posted under any circumstances. That said, as long as there are people, there will be people acting foolishly :) Maybe we could all make better use of the "report abuse" icon to discourage this type of high school behavior?

I wasn't trying to say these people were legit, only that in the current climate, they are playing on the right fear :)

I have to confess, when I first saw the site being discussed, it did spook me a little, as a number of touring ladies either cancelled or cut short their visits to Northern Ontario at the same time the site starting popping up in google searches of their phone numbers. They even distinguished between sp's who were allegedly "busted" with their clients, and sp's working in concert with the police (or more likely, an officer posing as an sp). It's something in the past I would have laughed at, but with the new laws in effect, I'll admit to letting a little paranoia seep into my thought process. The fact they are obviously trying to funnel traffic to AFF is a pretty big clue as to their intentions, but in smaller, more isolated cities, the idea of ending up on the news can alter your thinking.

The intent of people on dating sites is so wide ranging that even if an sp was using it to promote their business, it wouldn't even crack the top 10 forms of internet dating insincerity. There are people who want one night stands pretending they want to settle down, there are people using fake photos, there are people pretending to be different genders ... hell, there are so many forms of disingenuous behavior on the average dating site that trying to list them is an exercise in futility. All that said, I've used them in the past (with varying levels of success) and have learned that you have to accept that there's a pretty low ratio of people you will actually be interested in, but that's just a price you have to pay to try to find romance in the modern world. As traditional avenues of meeting people go away, the net has become a fairly convenient (even if not always reputable) way of finding romance. This may come as a surprise to some people, but SP's also have lives outside this world, and shocking as it may be, they want to be cared about, appreciated and loved the same way the rest of us do. As good of a client as you may think you are, a hobbyist can't fill that void, and if you're human, odds are, true intimacy will be somewhere on your hierarchy of needs.

I know financial limitations can really suck (and not in a sexy way), but the sooner we accept them and move on, the better off we are. There are some actresses in the adult film industry who tour as service providers, and while there are a few I crush pretty hard on, I have resigned to the fact that I'm not going to be spending a weekend with the Brea Olsens of the world, and that's not really something to cry about, it's just a reality of my financial situation. And as an interesting side note, for people who are afraid to give out their personal information to a provider, you should check out the application form you have to fill out to see some of the adult film actresses - banks don't require as much to mortgage your house :p

I am sure you had only the best intentions, but that first part where you generalize that the sp's are being a little bit bitchy is not going to make you many friends. Also, comparing a service provider to groceries probably isn't going to open a lot of doors for you either. I understand that it may seem like a harmless question, but questioning the value of intimacy with a woman is slightly different from people not being able to find the rotisserie chicken.

A few reasons why trying to negotiate a rate with an sp is a bad idea: 1) It's dehumanizing. Sure, it's a business transaction in a capitalist society, but do you really want to associate that with intimacy? You think it's a good idea to try to lower a provider's self-valuation? That's a real life, living, breathing human you're dealing with, are you sure you want to try to tell her what you think she's worth, the same way you would when buying something on kijiji? It's difficult to imagine that anyone who thinks that way has much respect for the other person 2) It's tacky. Negotiating in any environment where the price is made clear is never a good look. Have you ever seen that guy in Best Buy trying to barter with a minimum wage employee over the price of a television? Nobody likes that guy 3) It's a fantasy breaker. I realize not everyone is like me, but I think the fantasy element of this hobby is a really big deal, and nothing ruins an illusion quite like haggling. Anything intimate or romantic you say will ring as painfully insincere when your first contact is focused on cost. Just my take, not meaning to hang anyone out to dry, just trying to point out what others might not see as obvious.

I thought this macleans article raised some interesting points about Khadr and the way rulers try to placate the masses ... http://www.macleans.ca/news/canada/omar-khadr-and-the-ancient-ritual-of-the-scapegoat/

Wow, there are a ton of solid recommendations on here. I didn't realize how far behind I had fallen in the world of anime! I may have missed it, but I don't think anyone has mentioned what is probably my favorite anime film, Princess Mononoke, which is both super interesting and visually stunning. Though I guess the people gushing about Miyazaki are probably fans :)

I think Doctors are living in the same dream world as almost everyone else in this country. I can't decide if the establishment is trying to preserve antiquated christian sexual ideas or is just hellbent on making sure an industry dominated by women isn't allowed to prosper to its fullest economic extent.

I am going to guess you do not speak english as a first language (and there's nothing wrong with that), so make sure you are 100% sure of what you are saying when you ask an escort "technical" questions, and see if a friend can tell you a more discreet way of saying "boob sex", as some ladies will stop communicating with you when you make a direct request of a sexual nature. I believe in the industry this is called a "Russian", by the way

I've always been a fan of anime movies, but I have to admit it used to feel like some of the television series lost a bit in translation. Then I saw "Attack on Titan" and I basically lost my sh*t and devoured all 25 available episodes in a very short period of time. I can't remember the last time I found something so terrifying and exhilarating at the same time. I'm so impatient waiting for the next slew of episodes (still a year away) that I ordered the mangas! Very interesting, and challenging to the brain, to read everything right to left, but I'm slowly getting used to it.

I was not singling you out, as I don't find that productive. Individual stupidity is something the MOD should monitor, not the rank and file members, so if I thought you were a habitual line crosser, I would complain to the site itself. I don't think anything stated here was horribly negative, but I did feel like some of the comments being made betrayed the positive spirit of the board, so like any other idiot with an opinion, I stated it :D After recent changes to the law came into play, I felt like this site had become more snippy and contrary, but I've come to realize that these types of threads and comments have always existed, they were just heavily diluted by the significantly higher volume of sp ads, as well as some other threads relating to certain aspects of the business none of us are very comfortable discussing. I am hopeful this country comes to its collective senses and we can go back to our usual conversations on lust and debauchery!