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If you promised to wash my back after I washed yours ;) I'll even have it in candle lite, time permitting, yummy!

First my Condolences to you and your family PistolPete =( Imo - regarding this thread only, I find that this is a very hard time of year for everyone, society puts alot of pressure on the do's and don'ts of X-mas. (If that's the right way of saying it) Their are shut downs at work, layoffs, long hours, family get togethers, school breaks with deadlines due beforehand, excited children etc. Whether you celebrate it or not, you are a part of it one way or another. Do to a world wide "Traditional" holiday since the beginning of our modern time - no Dino's, it is a hard month ( for some its months) to avoid. I have 1/2 a family that celebrate & 1/2 that don't, children are torn down the middle and see both sides. Yet they cope and deal with it, and still smiles on their tiny little face's. We can not avoid it, so like our children and the original reason of Christmas as well as all other times of the year, try to keep a smile on our face and be happy that we have any form of family to love and share our lives with. At least that is what I try my very best to do. xoxo to all!

I myself ask that a shower be taken upon arrival due to my own allergies to colognes, perfumes, aftershaves & such. I do supply body washes and deodorants that I'm OK with. So showering for me is a must! Its rare that I would join him in the shower either, do to a requested look + we'd never leave =) (if I did it be a real treat, I love to wash my man.) I'm not much of a clock watcher, so the few minutes it takes him to make sure every inch of his body is clean for me to indulge in, all the better!

TY to everyone for your words of wisdom and advice. It was a hard decision to make for me as it was building into what I thought was more of a friendship, business aside and eliminated if it were to continue that way... meaning, that I had already stated to him I could not be both - a friend and a lover with what I did the way he wanted it. It had to be one or the other. SamanthaEvans you are right when you said we share some pretty intimate things with our clients, as well as a personal connection is developed that was long since forgotten for what ever reason. I pride myself too, for having the heart and soul for an unconditional mutual agreement... to share with many others simultaneously with little regard for myself. I enjoy allowing others to feel that excitement again in their lives! I enjoy talking with them when things are rough, and they just want to be heard and cradled. I enjoy bouncing Idea's off each other to understand a problem better. I Love hearing that they found LOVE again and no longer need me for any of this! If at that time... we can JUST be friends, then Great! But this was not the case :( He wanted "More" of "Me"... He wanted a relationship with me. Little things I did started to irritate him...one thing lead to another, till finally he got upset one too many times and made his accusation. I assured him it was nothing to be upset over, but I believe it stemmed from something entirely different. So I made my decision, however...he did appoligise, but the damage was done. I learned a few hard lessons very fast, and they are: -Discounts in this business for being a great client can create a false sense of emotional attachment for some, read my clients better. -Any time spent together, regardless of where and what, should still be considered a date. -Keep it Business not too Personal. -Don't keep allowing inappropriate behavior to continue, it gives a false sense of hope that I didn't intend to portray! There are so many things to learn and know in our ever changing society on a constant basis. I just wanted to share this one and hear how everyone else viewed it, or if they would have done things differently. I know that there was some pain and hurt created which was not my intention by any means, but then neither is leading someone on, in a false pretence for my own selfishness which I nor anyone else I've ever met in this industry intends to do. Again TY for the comments so far, and anymore that follow. xoxo

I know I am new to this Board... which I feel is a good reason to ask this. I have a client (well had) that I became fond of spending time with, and I know he did as well... much more than I due to my chosen profession. I held back, not enough it would seem. A situation came up and accusations were made... Feelings were hurt & Trust was questioned on both sides. Possibly still are? Not the first time, but by far the most serious. I believe it was the right thing to do to end our business as well as friendship to avoid further damage to either. What is your opinion on this or any other situation you may have had?

Everyone is doing so good at this... I love it and Ty so much for taking part in it. I have to say some of the "Animals" being used to describe one self are very unique and would make for some pretty interesting stories! :69:

I'm here... lol... read your post, but I drive myself and have never needed this, Sorry.

Ty all so much for your understanding! It was very nice to receive the rep points to... unexpected, but an added smile to my face! I do deserve a spanking now and then, just not to hard... eek! :biggrin:

Evening everyone, It would seem I was a slow study when it came to the rules here. So after sticking my head in a hole like an ostrich for a bit, here I am ready to appoligise to all the fine ladies for Posting an AD incorrectly, and to the mods for an inappropriate Album Pic as well. Is this a regular Newbie thing, Or was I really slow at this? :spank: I'm bad!

:icon_question: I consider myself to be like a Cat - Panther's are a favorite of mine... I like there independent nature, mysterious hunting skills, & stealth like attack on their Prey! Mmmm... what an Erotic thought! So if you could choose an Animal that would best describe you.... What would it Be? And Why? I find it says alot about a person's true nature and instinct's.... ;)

Hello, what an excellent Post, I read and understood all of what you were pointing out Alexandra... But I felt this to be the most important Part to me. Many people have been ridiculed and unjustly convicted without anyone really knowing the whole story First?

:chug: From me to you... It's so nice to be a part of something Naughty and Fun! Ty for all the Warm Wishes, as I send them back to you Just the same! xoxo

:tongue: I'm new here, Thought I'd Introduce myself to all the Fine Ladies and Men as my "First Post". I look forward to chatting with you all over time, and contributing to the threads...xo Have a Terrific Day & Week!