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Transitioning from "sugaring" to "escorting"

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I was wondering if anyone has had experience in sugaring and then transitioned into escorting regularly? Funny, when I was sugaring I made less money and had to be a exclusive to one guy, I find escorting more fun and more rewarding.... less restrictive and I set my OWN rules.

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Congrats! You will find this experience much more rewarding! I have been approached from time to time byr SDady's and I am wayyyy to independent and free willed to sign up for that. I could imagine being at someones beckon call like that! Even in ny relationships...I am still not at beckon call lol.

Enjoy your next journy:)

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As a lobbyist I experienced both and find those are quite different.

 

"Sugaring"/arrangements are pretty much relationships with a little help/gifts included. No clock watching and other than the enveloppe dropped in the purse, it fells like a normal evening or weekend between two lovers. And with the exclusivity it feel safer.

 

With escorts it's quite different in term of intimacy, rate and safety. Even with a regular you can't really reach the same level of familiarity unless you're willing to negotiate a different arrangement for a week-end stay. For a lady, it's certainly a more substantial source of income with donations from multiple sources. But with more clients, there more risks involved and a more constant screening process to find more. As you sound like a social bug, that last part doesn't seem to bother you.

 

Wish you the best.

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I'm in the same boat, just starting out as well.. I found that most (not all) SDs are more or less just trying to get more for less out of the escort experience by thinking they have the upperhand being an SD.

 

How are you making out so far, if you don't mind me asking������

 

- Alexis Lynn

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I'm in the same boat, just starting out.

Did you do the transition Independantly? If so, how are you making out so far if you don't mind me asking.

 

I know with sugaring there isn't much start up costs, you don't have to pay for advertising, etc. No one really cares if you have professional pictures as long as they're real.. are you finding those aspects any different/harder?

 

I know for me, the start up costs aren't the issue.. it's figuring out where best to spend my money advertising, when and which parts of the city work best if I were to get an incall location.

 

Thanks & wishing you the best

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I started as independent and I still am. I have not invested too much on my start up costs as I made an affordable website from wix. I cannot stress how much better investing a small monetary value in comparison to the TIME I invested in finding a SD. I use to spend some money on advertising on BP and CL. I am making out way better financially in comparison to when I was on SA doing sugaring. I could make more as a SP - but because of my graduate education I am particular who I see and it limits the potential clients (low-volume). A little bit of money invested (possibly $400), versus the countless time wasting and awkward coffee dates where the man was never a genuine SD and just wanted to be seen in public with an attractive blonde university student and fishing how much he could get for as little as possible was more 'costly' to me in comparison to the money I have invested as a SP. Plus the gentlemen (in my experience, and for the most part) - have been nicer being a SP versus a SB.

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