Nucci2015 120 Report post Posted January 13, 2016 so I went and booked my Fav again, and wanted all my fellow Pooners to know, Jersey posted an add stating she is willing to do a brief skype or facetime chat with potential pooners to help put our minds at ease, and to give us the opportunity to validate that she is the woman in the pictures on her add. very cool idea i thought. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fukenfresh 371 Report post Posted January 13, 2016 Very cool idea! Or if SP's would just consistently provide a video of themselves in all their ads, then it would be so helpful to everybody! Watch all these bait and switch disappear! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildstallion 1819 Report post Posted January 13, 2016 Sounds really good till you get too many guys who just want to skype and never book anything, hope it works. 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S****r Report post Posted January 13, 2016 The chat room has this feature here. Ladies used to do that all the time here. Just arrange to meet in the chat room at a specific time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted January 13, 2016 And I'm not writting about tech issues. It is sad to say that for a few that do ask for porn chat (free, that is), we cannot offer this kind of service to you, gents. Being in chat brings a smile to my face (and probably yours), but with repeated request for sex chat, well, it ruins the whole beauty of it... Sorry to say, but we, ladies, usually, don't like to be harrassed this way. This is why most of us don't offer chat or Skype. Behave, and it will be possible. Eventually. 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted January 14, 2016 so I went and booked my Fav again, and wanted all my fellow Pooners to know, Jersey posted an add stating she is willing to do a brief skype or facetime chat with potential pooners to help put our minds at ease, and to give us the opportunity to validate that she is the woman in the pictures on her add. very cool idea i thought. :) Maybe I'm missing something here. How do you know that the woman you chat with on Skype and has her pictures posted on an ad will still be the same lady that shows up. Even if the pictures on the ad, and person on Skype are the same, it's still not a guarantee that she will be the lady that shows up. And if it's to ensure a lady's photos are current all she has to do is keep her pictures current BTW that this lady chooses to do Skype is fine, and from what you say she is a good companion. But ladies who bait and switch can get around this if skyping is the only way a client would book A quick rambling RG 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forni39 110 Report post Posted January 16, 2016 RG..I agree, that may be so...but there is always that little bit of "risk" of switch and bait despite the precautions. A very brief video or live chat would provide some reassurance. One could never be 100% sure with first punts anyway. My 2c. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
O'Cahla 4352 Report post Posted January 16, 2016 There is a much easier way I've seen, where they just post a pic holding a card with matching contact info. Easy, quick and accurate. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kirbyfun 382 Report post Posted January 17, 2016 There is a much easier way I've seen' date=' where they just post a pic holding a card with matching contact info. Easy, quick and accurate.[/quote'] I am with you on this. I would feel a little assured that i am looking at the right girl and not somebody posing behind a stolen photo. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mr-zed 100 Report post Posted January 25, 2016 A pic holding a card with contact info can easily be edited/photoshopped to show whatever anyone wants. With knowledge of photoshop I can erase decades off a person's actual age and can easily shed them 50+ pounds. It's still the same image of that person, but not what they look like in reality. Personally, I'm skeptical when I see the professional photos and think it's best to rely on what the community's experiences have been and just beware of the shill. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildstallion 1819 Report post Posted January 31, 2016 As Pooners we have to continue to walk away from the Bait and switch providers if we fall victim to them, there is no shame in saying sorry you aren't the provider that I chose to spend my hard earned money on and walk away. It is one of the only sure fire methods. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brody Boivin 8445 Report post Posted February 1, 2016 This site was created to share experiences with Sp's and to write reviews to show that this person is who she says she is and what she is about. I work hard to maintain my blog, website, twitter and pay to post my ads all over ,to show that I am who I say I am and not to mention paying for my hotel room daily when I tour. I have even included a page on my website where I put all of my reviews, recos and even kind little ditties that people have written about or for me. To be quite honest , from my experience in booking with a SW myself, working with an agency for 3 years or more before I became independent and offering services on my own, is that you will never TRULY know without somebody else saying otherwise. A lot of new SP's depend on sites like this to show who they are and what they are about. A lot of girls are not comfortable with dancing in front of a cam and there is no proof that she will be the one at your door. Talk to the lady. If she can communicate well and get a good conversation going then, yes give it a shot. A lot of this hobbyist and SP situation is hit or miss. There's nasty people everywhere and there is no exception when it comes to SP's or Hobbyists. You need to inform yourself and do your research. Yes, that might be a PITA but you aren't going to invest in someone you won't take the effort to inform yourself on. Hobbyists need to understand that some of us don't want to show our face as we don't want extra attention turn into drama.We require discretion and it can be overwhelming when people are harassing you to send them pictures to their phone or email. Maybe when you arrive at the ladies place of work and see that it's not her, I don't know... LEAVE?? If you are unsure about a lady or fear the pimp ordeal, google it, ask around. It's insulting to be expected to do even more than we already do. Us ladies have to deal with time wasters ALL the time and it's exhausting. It's a constant battle of trying to prove ourselves so that you will even consider seeing us as we "may be a bait and switch". Maybe you need to try to book differently. My two cents 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fresh 8275 Report post Posted February 1, 2016 I actually get nervous seeing a provider who shows their whole face. If they are not worried about everyone knowing who they are and what they do would they have sympathy for protecting my identity. Now that being said some of my favourites do show their face in their ads and they do take great care in protecting their customers identity. But when seeing a new lady it does make me think Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brody Boivin 8445 Report post Posted February 1, 2016 I actually get nervous seeing a provider who shows their whole face. If they are not worried about everyone knowing who they are and what they do would they have sympathy for protecting my identity. Now that being said some of my favourites do show their face in their ads and they do take great care in protecting their customers identity. But when seeing a new lady it does make me think If a girl is actually in a situation where she can actually show her face, as I used to, it is usually to show that she wants to show you herself. There's a lot of assholes in this world. Face or no face... some women can be a trouble and then some, has nothing to do with the photo. If you are that worried, look for any reviews about the lady and ask the reviewer about the discretion, if not already stated in the review. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
