Duos...

I've read many times that one of the most common fantasies for men is a threesome, but it has never been something that I thought about.

Tonight I had the opportunity to have a duo with two very beautiful women, one of whom I had met before, and the other of whom was new to the massage profession and training. I opted for Nuru because that was something else I had never tried, and thought might be fun.

Slippery, laughing fun was had, and both ladies were gorgeous and enthusiastic...

But it clearly wasn't for me. I'm glad I tried it at least once, but I wouldn't again.

I think it boiled down to me really craving intimacy more than sexy frolicking. It was odd having a third person in the room, and made me a little nervous. I was worried about the girl in training, and ensuring that she was within her comfort zone. I was also, occasionally, concerned that someone might go shooting off the table!

Not every experience is for everyone, and now I know. Sincere thanks to both ladies for a session that was really memorable... even if it wasn't really my cup of tea.

Is that just me? Is every other man out there delighted to have an extra person in the room.? Please feel free to share your own experiences!

We are all a bit different and "vive la difference"! You and your crazy brothers that don't enjoy duo's are what makes the world so interesting. :)

When I fist ventured into this lifestyle I was a bundle of nerves. I felt sorry for the first lyla girl I met as I said very little and might have been holding my breath for the first 10 minutes lol.

Now I am very relaxed about sex and sexuality and I honestly can say I have these women to thank for my transformation. Thanks to the wonderful women on here I have no problem discussing what turns me on and asking for it. They provide a non judgemental environment to explore your desires. I have had duo's and enjoyed them very much but I am not seeking intimacy. I am seeking pleasure and sometimes... the more, the merrier.

As some of you know, I am married... and happily. She is beautiful, far smarter than me, kind, generous and more. What you may not know is that my wife and I were our only sexual partners before marriage. That inexperience meant a somewhat vanilla sex life. My experiences I had here have allowed me to open up with my wife and make sex fun and playful. Sex with my wife may not involve intercourse but now there is a whole world of intimacy and experience that has opened up for us. We don't need intercourse... which is not to say I wouldn't enjoy it if it was back on the table. Fingers crossed :)

We all have our reasons for doing what we do. My story may seem a bit weird but as I said, that what makes this world so interesting. Thanks to the women on here for making my sex life interesting again and thanks for your post, Stillopensdoors.

I have only endulged in a threesome once. I treated myself as a birthday present a few years back. It was kind of a bucket list thing.

I enjoyed it far more than I even thought I would. I knew it would be fun, but I didn't quite realize it could be as much fun as it was. Sadly I have been blessed with only the one penis so the logistics didn't even make a lot of sense beforehand. ;) The interactive nature and the chemistry between the two ladies made it amazing though.

I'm really glad that I tried it, and will likely try it again. Maybe another birthday treat at some point.

That being said, I tend to prefer the one-on-one dynamic. It can be far more intimate between two people. I enjoy this so much that it's hard to improve apon. I guess that is why I haven't gone back to yet.

A threesome was something I had always wondered about but never thought I would ever actually do in my life. Two years ago I decided to give it a try with a woman from here that I frequented, along with her duo partner; I did this more out of curiosity than anything else.

While I did have fun, like you Opensdoors, I prefer the one-on-one intimacy. I spent a lot of time worrying that maybe my attention was more focussed on one rather than the other. I never became truly comfortable.

There were a lot of nerves, and not just on my part; the SP that I frequent was worried about me and as a result she was a little nervous too. We all had fun and I had brought a large fruit and veggie platter that we shared after.

Will I try it again? They say practice makes perfect, but I think that I am more of a fan of the intimacy of one on one.

Thanks for the responses, guys.

It sounds like your experience was just like mine, Prufrock; motivated by curiosity, fun, but impeded by that divided focus. Thank you for sharing. It was appreciated.

I have only tried one - with MAs.

Now part of the reason is that I had talked to two of three ladies who are friends and house mates. And... and this is the key - they are true bisexual people. So I took the opportunity to take advantage of a training duo. Now with the pair of wonderful ladies I saw, the new lady and I were the focus and the more experienced young woman participated/guided/helped. It was very interesting because these two women actually enjoy each other sexually. I mostly like to spend time with just one lady, but it was still a great experience.

Some day I'll try it with SPs - but the key is to find SPs that are actually into each other sexually. I know of some - have some in mind - but I'm in no rush.

Agreed with Prufrock - it's mainly intimacy I'm looking for and that's a 1-1 thing with me mainly. I'll dabble and play with a 3 some but it's different. Wonderful, exciting, and fun, but not the intimate connection I look for most of the time. Both are fantasy - but one is a different kind of fantasy.

Also something I've never tired a Duo... one woman is typically more than enough for me, and as with others its the intimacy that I crave.

But I've been thinking of setting one up for my birthday this year. I inquired about it with a escort agency who said they are having a special a the moment on duos, 480 for an hours, but she's not sure how long it will last (my birthday is not for another 2 months).

I think Nicolette us right. If there is no chemistry between the ladies (and that does not mean that they must be interactive) then it will never work. It has to be fun for all. Reality and fantasy don't always meet. Be cautious as to expectations.

Here are my thoughts, I think the first double might be a little overwhelming. So many things you've dreamed about doing if you ever got the chance. It's like being a kid in a candy store.

It really helps when girls are familiar with each other, to get things to flow naturally, but too much familiarity with each other can be negative. Once I had doubles who happens to be real life girlfriends, I had watch a lot girl on girl action. I think that it also help when a client is just familiar with both ladies as well as the ladies are with each other.

However, because this is your fantasy it is nice to let them know if there is something special that you are looking to happen, like to watch girl on girl, strap on play, or just being the center of attention. For the first one, definitely schedule a longer encounter like 2 hours or 90 mins if possible. Time can fly by too quickly. There have been several times where I've been like "awe man, I'm not ready for it to end".

Because of this lifestyle and opportunities I have experienced a number of threesomes which I thought was low until now. Some things that I have learned. The ladies/couples are just as nervous as you are and if you go in with the attitude that whatever happens, happens with no expectations, you will have a lot of fun. Have a sense of humor and learn to have fun again.

In the end you have experienced something that you probably will disbelieve every time, but will remember for quite some time. I'm not sure why people would not experience it at least once. No regrets.