No restrictions

Its interesting that you look at ''no restrictions" in that way...I see it in some ads as well and now that you have mentioned it... I wonder too....

I respond the same way.. and even worse when guys ask me.. 'so is it anything goes' during your service? my response.. I'm not a blowup doll.

Ofcourse you would say something like that! LOL You would make one hot blow up doll though!

Kianna.. I'll be a blowup doll.. if you ''blow me'' up :)

LOL

I can see this going way off topic but I would "blow you" anytime!:D

I sometimes come across ads that say "no restrictions" and to be totally honest, it always gives me the shivers

because the first thing that comes to my mind is "what about BBFS?" (I'm pretty certain I'm not the only one).

 

Now, I'm not saying that "no restrictions" equal BBFS. Not at all but I'm very curious as to what it means exactly.

Would any of you ladies (or agencies) that use the term "no restrictions" be willing to enlighten me and the

cerb community as to the meaning of the term?

 

Thank you in advance!

IKR @ this post!! I wonder about that all the time... those SP's are taking lots of risks if that's what's meant! I would like to be enlightened as well.

my personal opinion is everything included except BBFS...because if someone offer it, they are well more then crazy...Just all what you would consider PSE I guess like bbbjcimsw, cof, greek

This is my take on the term too, as I see BBFS as a standard across-the-board restriction to begin with. I know BBFS is out there, but it's whispered in hush tones moreso then anyone who would openly advertise it.

My own impression is that "No Restrictions" is one of those terms that really doesn't have a specific meaning translatable into a list of exact services on the menu. Much like "PSE", I take it to be more about the attitude. At heart, it's often just a marketing buzz-word. Because of course there's always restrictions - there's always a line.

My own impression is that "No Restrictions" is one of those terms that really doesn't have a specific meaning in terms of exact services on the menu. It's often just a marketing buzz-word.

You mean like 'open-minded'?

In the end, it's all subjective to some degree I guess.

I'd really wonder about "no restrictions"... I'd probably have to ask. And there'd be a good chance I'd just move on, 'cos I'm not a big fan of vague stuff.

my personal opinion is everything included except BBFS...because if someone offer it, they are well more then crazy...Just all what you would consider PSE I guess like bbbjcimsw, cof, greek

Agreed on BBFS, although I suspect that crazy people nevertheless exist.

The thing is, "no restrictions" could also be interpreted to include many other, more fetish-y things that many SPs probably don't offer at all, including the kind of activities that involve a great deal of trust and that you probably wouldn't do with a complete stranger, and other things that some may just consider... unpleasant. I suspect that "no restrictions" really means "no restrictions, within reason" - but, of course, we probably all have our own definitions of what's reasonable, and it seems to me that this sort of thing is likely to result in miss-communication and incorrect expectations, with the inevitable disappointment that will result...

I don't like the term ' no restrictions' and would stear clear. I do like to see the term full service but before booking an appointment I ask about that. " by full service do you mean everything covered-up ?" by full service do you mean anal included ? Are you o.k. with kissing?

This allows that lady to define what she means by full service.

Honestly the ads ladies use are like the ads you see on TV. They are they to catch your eye, better to ask .

For example: paper towel have been advertised as " thicker, stronger, more absorbant", since the 1940s better ask what they mean by " no restrictions "... then decide if that is what you want.

If I read something that said "no restrictions", I would assume she is very open minded and anything goes, but I never thought of BB anything until now, I'm fairly open minded, but not when it comes to my safety (our safety) and I would think that that was standard safety practice?

But hey, if no restrictions means no restrictions and BBFS it is all day every day then let's get this party started ! Reminds me of this song we sang in health class, grade 5 "My body is nobodys body but mine, you have your own body let me have mine"

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When I see it (rarely) I tend to think she is referring to PSE qualities as mentioned like BBBJ, CIM, etc. but there is a sneaking doubt inside of me that she is referring to BBFS and I get chills. I would not feel comfortable seeing a provider who is careless enough with her words to leave that as a possible assumption, and it goes without saying I would not see a provider who offers BBFS.

I think "no restrictions" translates to "open minded" and not BBFS. At least that's as far as I would want to take it. It might include things like greek, GFE, PSE - but I would never assume this term refers to putting one's own safety at risk (at least not mine!).

In my travels, I have never had anyone offer me BBFS anything & if I detect any sketchy stuff, I walk.

When I see it (rarely) I tend to think she is referring to PSE qualities as mentioned like BBBJ, CIM, etc. but there is a sneaking doubt inside of me that she is referring to BBFS and I get chills. I would not feel comfortable seeing a provider who is careless enough with her words to leave that as a possible assumption, and it goes without saying I would not see a provider who offers BBFS.

I don't see where the problem is seeing a provider that is comfortable enough to offer such services. Myself, I have slept with boyfriends unprotected, does that make me unclean, and so what if I were paid for it or not. When we dabble in this industry, we all know the risks, they are out there if we are getting paid/paying for it or not, so put on your seat belt and drive carefully..Protect yourself, that's the best you can do.

There is a market for BB services, they are enjoyed by many and if that's what they like then good for them..Please don't throw a chance to meet a great service provider away because of her personal choices since you would have used protection anyways, right?

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my personal opinion is everything included except BBFS...because if someone offer it, they are well more then crazy...Just all what you would consider PSE I guess like bbbjcimsw, cof, greek

I guess I see it the same way Malika does. A no restrictions PSE encounter..... but not BBFS. I'm sure it happens *shudder* but for me when reading ads that never even enters my mind in the realm of possibilities. I think at this point in the game it's an unspoken agreement between SP and client that one should never expect BBFS.

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BBFS = Possible death

I don't have to say "My restrictions include NO stabbing, choking, drowning, poisoning, bludgeoning (Insert other ways to die here)... each other to death" in my ads. I won't ever do BBFS, unless in a committed, non-escorting relationship.

AND... Like guy, yeah you who would contemplate BBFS with an escort or any girl that you aren't in a relationship with... What if she gets pregnant? Do you want to pay child support to a girl you don't even know for the rest of your life...? Not all girls are pro-abortion and things happen... Things you can't run from.

Sorry for being all BLARGH about this... but it kills me that people want to do that... Like I get that it might feel better, but come on...

At what costs?

The advertisements are just another wording of "it's all inclusive" IMHO

Some ladies don't advertise their " do not service " ?? So I guess this saying she will do everything, but I doubt it involves BBFS.

I think we are all mature enough to understand that BBFS is not what happens and we would not participate in it.

It really does not bother me to see these ad's, I rather know that it is all inclusive. How about the ads that read says "I'm totally GFE" only to find out through a email or pm, "Sorry I don't DFK or allow DATY" Then why bothering saying GFE?

It is just another way of advertising that is my take on it.

When I see no restrictions I always think about it first from a slightly different mindset as I'm submissive so my eyes go *huge* then I remember that its highly unlikely the SP in question is open to all forms of edge play, waterplay ect ect. When I see no restrictions in this world all I assume is greek, and bbbj and possibly COM ect ect is available.

No restriction might mean open to suggestions but as you said it there is a whole range of fetishes out there. I mean I'm still looking for someone interested in a Miss Piggy and Kermit furry play.......

One of the best ways to discover a ladies "restrictions" is to read her website as often she will elude to services provided or even have a Services Page (like I do) ;)

That is exactly what I do everytime before meeting a lady for the first time. Also read some reviews and get an idea going in and then there are no unrealistic goals and dissapointment to follow.

Anytime I see no restrictions I don't usually think bbfs but that greek and cim is usually available. I have had an escort offer bbfs one night in Montreal. It was late when she got to my room and said she had no condoms left but for an extra $50 we could do it bare. I gave her the $50 for her time and asked her to leave right then before even one piece of clothing came off. There wasn't even a split second that I would consider it, too much to lose health wise and nothing to do with chance of a baby as I am very happy to be firing blanks....lol

I don't think it neccessarily means the provider is open to BBFS although I think it would warrant some polite questioning to clarify.