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Airing out the dirty laundry on cerb - Not permitted (Stalkers, tiffs, etc...)

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I have had to delete two threads in the past 24 hours of people using cerb to vent about things that I like to refer to as AIRING OUT YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY that is not the purpose of CERB and I must delete these posts and give out warnings for such things.

 

For example... calling out a guy who is stalking you in hopes that he reads your thread about him on cerb (THIS WOULD NOT ALLOWED!).

 

If you have a stalker CALL THE POLICE do not bring these problems (or encourage these people) to/on cerb. If it is a cerb member REPORT him/her to me and CALL the police. Posting about someone in public who is obviously unstable and harassing you will only make things worse and could encourage that person to escalate his/her attempts to harass you. If you have a TIFF with someone, keep it off cerb please.

 

For example #2... If you work in a massage spa and as an escort on the site and you want to complain in public that guys are coming to see you in the massage spa and talking about your escorting (or looking for "extra's at the spa")... this is something you need to deal with privately not complaining on cerb about it.

 

The point I am getting at here is cerb is NOT to be used as a place to vent, a place to call out other people or air out your dirty laundry. Some things are better dealt with in private or by the proper authorities.

 

I couldn't agree with you more Mod. Keep up the fantastic work that you do!!

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I totally agree with you on this one.

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Are these people still not aware of the fact that there are other boards that allow that sort of thing? But in a world of negativity and hate, thank God for cerb! :razz:

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Are these people still not aware of the fact that there are other boards that allow that sort of thing? But in a world of negativity and hate, thank God for cerb! :razz:

 

Couldnt agree more. There are some nasty people out there. I think I'll kepp my rose coloured glasses on and thank the stars that there is CERB and that we are all great people.

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Guest m**l

i think it is important to address issues when the timing and place are appropriate. this is not the place to conduct such aspects of business. i think a lot of the hobbyist members of cerb would be very turned off by the drama that can sometimes transpire "behind the scenes!" lets keep cerb fun and friendly.... UNLESS OUR SAFETY OR ANOTHER's SAFETY IS AT RISK!

 

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i think it is important to address issues when the timing and place are appropriate. this is not the place to conduct such aspects of business. i think a lot of the hobbyist members of cerb would be very turned off by the drama that can sometimes transpire "behind the scenes!" lets keep cerb fun and friendly.... UNLESS OUR SAFETY OR ANOTHER's SAFETY IS AT RISK!

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Hey,

I'm a new member to cerb and have been following your posts,I am learning quite a bit about this site from you(oblivious to your knowledge haha)... Keep posting please lol..

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I couldn't agree with you more Mod. Keep up the fantastic work that you do!!

 

 

Ditto :) I've always loved CERB because it is so upbeat and non threatening. The people here make me smile and I'm glad we have a mod like you to ensure it stays that way!!! HUGZ

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Guest K***e D****ls

Blakelondon said it best: It's refreshing.

 

As a provider, it's nice to not have to worry about any negative comments about you. The drama free spirit of it is such a breath of fresh air.

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Definitely refreshing! I was referred to this site by another SP :) glad to be here!

 

Kerri

 

I was as well and I thank her silently to myself everyday and I have done in public. Although we have yet to meet, we surely will when our schedules allow. She left Halifax but visits frequently, so we will eventually sit down and chit chat over a lovely glass of wine.

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I agree with you Mod, but if anyone has a Problem with me for any reason, i would like them to talk to me first and if it continues, then take other measures.

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I agree with you Mod, but if anyone has a Problem with me for any reason, i would like them to talk to me first and if it continues, then take other measures.

 

For sure, that is the best resolve when possible.... not always possible. Some people (MANY PEOPLE) are not approachable and some are not stable minded and can become very "unhitched" when confronted... some even mean and aggressive and WAY over the top. Each situation is unique.

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Guest a**4*

I agree this we do not want here this is a great place to chat with members thanks mod

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Guest short2longhair

Soooo true .. no one likes stalkers and creeps ... i have one in particular that i cant get rid of and i hate it lol

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Soooo true .. no one likes stalkers and creeps ... i have one in particular that i cant get rid of and i hate it lol

 

Yep. I'm sure many can relate. Welcome to Cerb Short2longhair!

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