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Old 08-31-2010, 12:41 AM
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I got a 14 day-suspension NOT 7 day suspension .
I should state that it is a MINIMUM 7 day suspension (If anyone has a track record of having to be warned about other stuff... the suspension would be longer of course).
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I completely agree that spamming clients you have never seen before is unwanted and unprofessional.

I have a question tho.....I'm noticing a lot of threads started by new members looking for a certain type of lady who is available for a certain time or who is of a certain ethnicity, service-style or whatever. Because most ladies aren't comfortable responding directly in the thread for fear of looking bad, is it then a no-no to PM the individual about his request privately if we have never PMed them before? The "I am looking for...*insert whatever*" threads seem to be asking for input from the ladies and other members but might not be asking for someone to PM them specifically just post in the thread....

If a memeber is looking for something specific.....sure the lady should contact them by PM and inform them that they can help with thier request



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And the unsolicited emails or approach is what I was referring to. A client asking an s.p to indicate via email when she is coming to town, that is something completely different. For instance, some of my friends request I send them an email in advance when I plan on renting a room downtown or when I have the occasional weekend or evening availability...there is nothing wrong with contacting those who request this from you. I am just saying I would NEVER email every cerb member I previously met with to indicate I am available for them , that type of thing is what I was referring to, but, we all make mistakes, NO one is perfect!!!
Again...if you are informing clients who have asked for notice.....or have contacted you before and what to be contacted....sure.....PM is great....



What is / has been happening is some of us are getting unsolicited PM's from ladies we have not seen......have not requested a meeting or updates..........just the fact we look at thier profile..it logs our visit...and them we are PM'ed asking that since we looked at thier profile....would we want to meet?..............

I look at alot of profiles.......when in chat I will check out profiles of chatters.....to see what they like or interests are.....better conversation that way......

By checking a profile does not mean I want to meet......crap...if that were the case I would be busy and broke...and .............
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Annessa - I think the problem most of us have is with unsolicited PMs. If I member posts asking for a certain type of lady, I would consider that soliciting.

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Annessa - I think the problem most of us have is with unsolicited PMs. If I member posts asking for a certain type of lady, I would consider that soliciting.
ok, I just wanted to be sure...because sometimes they aren't asking the girls to PL but are asking for members feedback....sometimes a member is not going to know whether a gal is interested in a certain fetish etc.....but the ladies will, and may want to keep from the public that they are into something...

I would still appreciate mod's confirmation on this as it may be considered by some to be "unsolicited" if they put the word out to members instead of the ladies themselves......I just want to be careful and not tread on a fine line and get the OK first before messaging a member in a case like this

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Personally I think if a guy posted a message looking for a particular type of girl, then that particular type of girl PM's him that is not unsolicited. It is SOLICITED. He asked for it.

A PM a girl I know about her new hours or how to book her or whatever is welcome in my inbox as well, however that could be called unsolicited. I guess a public message is a better idea in that case.

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ok, I just wanted to be sure...because sometimes they aren't asking the girls to PL but are asking for members feedback....sometimes a member is not going to know whether a gal is interested in a certain fetish etc.....but the ladies will, and may want to keep from the public that they are into something...

I would still appreciate mod's confirmation on this as it may be considered by some to be "unsolicited" if they put the word out to members instead of the ladies themselves......I just want to be careful and not tread on a fine line and get the OK first before messaging a member in a case like this


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I have had this happen to me and I must say it is very tasteless, not to mention awkward! Needless to say I have never been back to see the lady who solicited me...and I never will!
Just to clarify my previous point as I was not clear at all. When I stated that I find it tasteless and awkward I was, and still am referring to forms of contact other than pm. When I was contacted by the lady in my previous post it was by text message and not by pm here on Cerb. So to clarify, for my own sake if nothing else, I have no issue with a lady contacting via pm to let me know she will be in the area or even just to converse. I do have an issue, a big one at that, with being contacted by text or phone.

My apologies for having to add another post to this thread just so I could clarify my thoughts, but my original post is too old to edit at this point. Again my apologies for not really adding anything new..
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Just to clarify my previous point as I was not clear at all. When I stated that I find it tasteless and awkward I was, and still am referring to forms of contact other than pm. When I was contacted by the lady in my previous post it was by text message and not by pm here on Cerb. So to clarify, for my own sake if nothing else, I have no issue with a lady contacting via pm to let me know she will be in the area or even just to converse. I do have an issue, a big one at that, with being contacted by text or phone.

My apologies for having to add another post to this thread just so I could clarify my thoughts, but my original post is too old to edit at this point. Again my apologies for not really adding anything new..

no need to appologize... it IS definitely a no-no to text anyone you of the blue as you never know who may be checkin their phone etc....even if they are single at one point does not mean they might be attached at another point....some blackberries and iPhones display the message right away on the screen before the person has to check it....you never know who is looking and you never know what you may be interrupting.....PM is discrete....but as many said, if it isn't asked for, dont do it......the same should be applied to texts x10
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I may have just committed this heinous no-no. I sent a PM to someone who had posted something specific and was looking; stating that he had had no one.

My bad, if it was one. I will take the suspension as is due if it gets reported. Im very sorry.

Edit: After re-reading this thread again, I think Im ok.
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I may have just committed this heinous no-no. I sent a PM to someone who had posted something specific and was looking; stating that he had had no one.

My bad, if it was one. I will take the suspension as is due if it gets reported. Im very sorry.

Edit: After re-reading this thread again, I think Im ok.
In my interpretation this is not soliciting via the PM system. I would back you on this.
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