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Im wondering if perhaps the tone of the board lately is indirectly the reason there have been an increase in no-shows and just plain slow days. Not thinking this is true...just a thought. :confused:

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Well this certainly makes sense and I think I'll print it out. Being an SP for about 8 months you learn something new all the time. Everything you mentioned I do, and Ive only had less than a handful of no shows.

 

I was just confused about the slowness. It kind of shook my confidence a little until it was somewhat explained to me. The thought of the negativeness was just something I was throwing out there.

 

Thank you for taking the time and effort to create such a post. May I suggest you sticky it in the Newbie Section as it is very clear.

 

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Wow, that just about sums up everything Mod!

 

I would like to add, that when I see a post from an escort to the effect of "Things are so slow, I'm offering a discount!" or "Things are so slow I'm quitting, maybe I'll come back later in the year." I run like hell. Why are things slow for her? Why don't guys like her? It's a warning to me.

 

When I see things like, "Hey guys, I"m here as usual....come get me!" and I don't get an answer when I call, or her voicemail is full or I don't get a PM for a couple of days, I know she's hot and in demand and that makes me want her too! ;-)

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Another thread on the topic, if you read the last page and the last comment from Emma Alexander she tells as it is, as I know that this time of year is always slow for the ladies. MOD gave you ladies some great detailed info, so you will know the other months ahead what to expect.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=31629&highlight=slow+business

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I would like to add, that when I see a post from an escort to the effect of "Things are so slow, I'm offering a discount!" or "Things are so slow I'm quitting, maybe I'll come back later in the year." I run like hell. Why are things slow for her? Why don't guys like her? It's a warning to me.

 

I totally agree with this. I'm genuinely not trying to ruffle any SP feathers with what I'm about to say, but I think questions about business should be kept in the SP-only section. Why? Because these men are not here to help our business! Reminding them that we are 'working' or are not busy are not the ways to change that. We are part of a fantasy for them, and reminding them of the business aspect ruins that in many ways.

 

I've heard from many hobbiests that they've been messaged on chat or PM, by girls saying things like 'I've just had a cancellation so I'm all alone, come visit me!', or 'I've been alone all day, waiting for someone, want to come over'. These attempts at receving a visitor have NOT been successful, and I can see why - this is just tacky. Our ads, photos, and reviews are what are here to entice these gentlemen, but if they do not make the choice to contact you, sorry, no matter how busy or not busy you are, you shouldn't be making the choice to contact them. The choice to see or not see a lady is up to the hobbiest - it's a big part of why they choose SPs instead of going to a bar!

 

Slow business sucks, I've encountered this in many jobs in my life, but it's something everyone has to deal with. Also - every hobbiest knows that you should NEVER ask a lady 'how's business', 'how many clients have you seen today?' and the like. So I don't see why we should be asking them why business is slow. It's the opposite side of the same coin.

 

I'm in no way trying to single anyone out, especially not the OP here, just giving my two cents. And I'm sure things WILL be getting better for everyone soon, as MOD points out above it's a busy time of year for family men!!

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A lot of experienced sps do take scheduled time off during the summer months. Or at least a more limited availability, in order to take advantage of the weather! At the very least, the days you do work will be busier than if you are just ready as per usual.

 

I think the mod is fairly accurate about the usual slower times. The no show thing tho, I can guarantee that most sps already use some sort of verification, and the same thing is happening. (most do not accept block call appts, so the # is for sure there). The best thing to do is to limit the info given re: address. Give out a general area, then the street address when they get there, then when they are at the street address, the rest. that way you don't waste too much time and energy giving out full address info to someone who may or may not arrive, and who has to travel 30-45 minutes to get there too. You allow the time wasters too much power over your schedule if you give out too much too soon. Time wasters are very common -- they collect addresses, they try to book you for times with no intention of showing up (possibly in order to make their fav sp the one guys go to see because you are busy. Just don't give anyone the power to waste more than about 30 minutes of your time, and always offer the next caller a callback to fill the space when someone no shows).

 

The other thing is the 8 month thing. MOST new sps do not realize that they are busy because they are new and THIS WILL NOT LAST. The only way to deal with this is to make bank during those first 6 months, work smart, and prepare for the slow down becuase it WILL happen. Many clients are not big repeaters, especially ones found thru review sites who specifically like to see the new girl, then move on to the next new girl.

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I agree with some of what Cleo said, but i dont mind being contacted by an sp. I don't have a regular sp, but i have been with a certain lady 5 times simply because she texts or calls me and remembers things about me or our encounters. I find its a nice personal touch, and adds to the fantasy ...lol... Obviously this should be cleared with a client though, as many are married and with gf's so wouldnt want to be contacted. Me however, i'm happily single, and dont mind a lady saying hi, would you like to get together tonight/tomorrow !

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Obviously this should be cleared with a client though, as many are married and with gf's so wouldnt want to be contacted. Me however, i'm happily single, and dont mind a lady saying hi, would you like to get together tonight/tomorrow !

 

Of course it's different if it's been cleared before, I have had gentlemen ask me to let them know when I'll be in a certain area of town, and I always ensure to do so. But that's different than just messaging out of the blue asking for business of course!

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Chanel: The MOD is right, summer months are traditionally slower due to family vacations, etc. as indicated above. It's got nothing to do with you personally.

 

There is no science for predicting when you'll be busy, but you can probably be rest assured that after Labour Day, you will see things start to pick up if you continue to advertise your availability. If you're not available every day, it's important to still maintain an on-board presence by advertising your services for when you are available. Having a week-ahead schedule helps. I find that advertising for same day or even next day appointments don't always yield the best results.

 

Like Cleo suggested, when you're new, you will get more calls in the beginning. After that, you have to work at it a little bit more creatively to attract clients and that also includes advertising in more than one place.

 

That is something you might want to discuss with other SPs off-line. From what I know of you, you are smart and savvy and you'll find your own groove. Just hang in there.

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Chanel: The MOD is right, summer months are traditionally slower due to family vacations, etc. as indicated above. It's got nothing to do with you personally.

 

There is no science for predicting when you'll be busy, but you can probably be rest assured that after Labour Day, you will see things start to pick up if you continue to advertise your availability. If you're not available every day, it's important to still maintain an on-board presence by advertising your services for when you are available. Having a week-ahead schedule helps. I find that advertising for same day or even next day appointments don't always yield the best results.

 

Like Cleo suggested, when you're new, you will get more calls in the beginning. After that, you have to work at it a little bit more creatively to attract clients and that also includes advertising in more than one place.

 

That is something you might want to discuss with other SPs off-line. From what I know of you, you are smart and savvy and you'll find your own groove. Just hang in there.

 

Thanks, and Id like to say your Finishing School rocks. Just sometimes my confidence takes a hit. :oops:

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When I was a stripper, there were always women in the dressing room complaining about not making enough money. Every single shift has a reason to be bad: Nice weather, bad weather, sports game, long weekend, you name it, there was a reason she wasn't making money and it certainly had nothing to do with her!

 

I never participated in these discussions, and instead decided to take responsibility for my own income rather than handing it off to events over which I have no control. I've always kept a positive attitude, and I was a top earner at the strip club.

 

I kept this attitude when I went into massage, and business has been great, if not overwhelming. I could flatter myself and say it's my looks/service, but ultimately I think it comes down to my attitude.

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I could flatter myself and say it's my looks/service' date=' but ultimately I think it comes down to my attitude.[/quote']

I am certain that your positive and responsible attitude has alot to do with it. But don't discount your beauty and high calibre of service. To me it's the package of all that which makes the woman.

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Chanel Honey,

 

Advertising as an SP is like having investments... you have to diversify your advertising. I'm not sure if you just advertise here but that is not going to cut it if you are looking for stable appts everyday or even just a couple of times a week. You also have to continually create a stronger presence for yourself whether it's through multiple adult sites and/or a website. There are free websites that cater to the adult industry.

 

When I returned to the business I really wasn't thrilled with advertising on CL but I gave it a try. While I have changed my schedule from what it used to be a few years ago to accomodate other obligations in my life, I have also switched gears by catering to a different group of clients by offering half hours which I never did before. It was always 1 hour appts. I honestly thought CL was going to be bad but I have met some really nice clients there and they have been gentlemen to me. Sure, there are some times wasters, no shows and the wassup guys but those people are easy to identify. I rarely encounter them. You should give it a try. You have nothing to lose.

 

Also take into account that July and August are the slowest times of the year while September and October have always been the busiest. You also create your own world whether it's postive or negative energy. Try to keep a positive attitude.

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Also, bear in mind the word "busy" doesn't mean the same to everyone. le.

 

A busy day for one, might be 2 clients a day, for another, less than 5 is not busy enough.

 

I do believe positive attitude does account for a big part of it, but there are always mitigating factors that we have no control over, and has been suggested, we need to plan for those times and be grateful whether we are busy are not because those times will come when we will reap the benefits and possibly like Megan suggested, even have to turn down business.

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To me the key is definately attitude, positive attracts positive and negative is well negative. Like in any field of endeavour when business is rolling it's vital not to take it for granted, the "tire kickers" or perceived "time wasters" of today may in fact be the bread and butter of tomorrow. I've contacted some in the past and if I wasn't ready to book right then and there I was sort of blown off partially because at that point in time they had no shortage of bookings. Times do change and flavours of the month change as well.

 

It's always good to be prospecting because you never know who your next regular might be and it's the regulars who'll help get you through the slower times.

 

Peace

MG

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I was told my previous post sounded a little harsh (and that was not my intention - I was just doing it in a hurry I guess) I revisited it and the member was correct it was coming across a little rough and could be mistaken so I reworded it. Sorry if anyone else felt I was out of line - really that is not what I intended it to read like.

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I have friends in Retail Sales and it is the same for them right now. It's the time of the season. I agree with all that's been said already and in any business customer service is important. Keep pleasing the regulars and constantly working on expanding your client base.

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Picture this... The guy is all ready to come see the lady he has chosen and the door bell rings and it's his brother or uncle or who knows who just "DROPS BY" for a visit... URH!? Probably with his annoying kids and wife... (Many of us have been in similar situations)

 

 

 

This has happened to me! Believe me, Ladies, you're not the only one disappointed when this can happen!!!

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Chanel: The MOD is right, summer months are traditionally slower due to family vacations, etc. as indicated above. It's got nothing to do with you personally.

 

There is no science for predicting when you'll be busy, but you can probably be rest assured that after Labour Day, you will see things start to pick up if you continue to advertise your availability. If you're not available every day, it's important to still maintain an on-board presence by advertising your services for when you are available. Having a week-ahead schedule helps. I find that advertising for same day or even next day appointments don't always yield the best results.

 

Like Cleo suggested, when you're new, you will get more calls in the beginning. After that, you have to work at it a little bit more creatively to attract clients and that also includes advertising in more than one place.

 

That is something you might want to discuss with other SPs off-line. From what I know of you, you are smart and savvy and you'll find your own groove. Just hang in there.

 

I know the mod is right; and I know how many times you have told me in the last few weeks. In another thread I posted:

 

 

Ok lets put this into prospective with a trend toward any generic business:

  • Business is slow at some times of the year but not in others.
  • Customer service and satisfaction should be of the utmost importance.
  • Staff get ill, have lives and family emergencies.
  • Customers get ill, have lives and family emergencies.
  • Some companies have better reputations than others.
  • As a consumer you can always vote with your feet, and should do so if the business is not to your satisfaction.
  • Any company still reserves the right to refuse service in this country.
  • No customer should be harangued by staff.
  • No staff should be harangued by customers.
  • Some companies are final sale.

How is this any different than this business?

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Yes I am educated, but have zero entrepreneurial skills unless you want to consult about horticulture, medieval history or government tendering. :)

 

Angela I really thought it was funny that you said "From what I know of you...". It took you 30 years?? :idea: :D

 

This thread is allowing me to see things from all sides. For a person who's glass is always usually 3/4 full, this is a good thing.

 

Thank you

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Also, bear in mind the word "busy" doesn't mean the same to everyone. le.

 

A busy day for one, might be 2 clients a day, for another, less than 5 is not busy enough.

 

 

You're so right Angela, I only book 1 or 2 clients per day and I'm busy and booked up.

I always allow myself one day off per week to run errands/do chores/be available for friends and family, and one day to relax/refresh. This leaves me available 5 days a week and due to my 1 or 2 per day rule daytime only visits (11am-7pm), I'm almost always booked ahead for a 2 week period. This has it's downside as some clients want to book immediately and would rather not wait a week or two, but it doesn't seem to deter many of my regulars. Also I think it depends on the age of the provider, the age of clients you attract and the area you live. The majority of my clients are near my age or older and not affected by "back to school" or x-mas approaching. These months are usually the busiest for me.

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Mods understanding of a business slow times is fairly accurate specially in the sex trade biz. I would like to add a few professional tips here too. I own business for 15 yrs and yes downturns can be expected but they can also come when you're not expecting them. Plan for a 3 month income strategy, what you make today is your income in 3 months, yes it takes some savings but in the long run any downturns in business can be easily adjusted and you have 3 months to find new business before all hell brakes loose.

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Mods understanding of a business slow times is fairly accurate specially in the sex trade biz. I would like to add a few professional tips here too. I own business for 15 yrs and yes downturns can be expected but they can also come when you're not expecting them. Plan for a 3 month income strategy, what you make today is your income in 3 months, yes it takes some savings but in the long run any downturns in business can be easily adjusted and you have 3 months to find new business before all hell brakes loose.

 

I can certainly relate to this and agree 100%. This "business" is no different than any other and a back up plan should always be in place!

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Mods understanding of a business slow times is fairly accurate specially in the sex trade biz. I would like to add a few professional tips here too. I own business for 15 yrs and yes downturns can be expected but they can also come when you're not expecting them. Plan for a 3 month income strategy, what you make today is your income in 3 months, yes it takes some savings but in the long run any downturns in business can be easily adjusted and you have 3 months to find new business before all hell brakes loose.

 

Thank you. THIS is exactly what I needed to hear as my life is about to seriously change (for the better) and my options are not wide open, but rather limited. So I have to be a littlemore business savvy.

 

And my preference is to only see 3-4 clients a week.

 

Im already planning for the future as in; take a month off in August and go camping, and take Feb off for a sunny destination. :D

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