Naming names and labelling people basednon a single experience.

I wouldnt want anyone to give out my real name.

I can do that myself. Noone here would know me by my real name so it would offer no real insight other than to expose my privacy and label my activity forever - even when I no longer hobby

Even if i was scammed i wouldn't give away a SP's name.

If I was judged solely on my first interactions, or if an opinion formed was on a bad day for me, I would have very few social engagements.

I think that age has given me more insight and experience. when I meet someone new

I afford younger people more latitude as they learn the ropes and are not fully aware that their actions have consequences.

More mature people I offer flexibility and even more courtesy as life is more complicated when you are aware of consequences.