Question from a noob

Hi everyone. Been looking around this site for a while and i hope you don't mind a new member to the community.

I had a question with regards to bookings. Would escorts feel comfortable in having, say five or 10 minute conversations, via the phone after a formal booking is done with a client to get to know them a little bit?

Is this asking for too much? I have to admit in my limited experience meeting a girl and not knowing anything at all or what kind of personality she may have has made me nervous to the point of poor performance.

Do you think its normal to ask such things just to get to know someone a little bit? (Yes I dont mean asking personal questions, but just talking).

Hi Ryoma,

Too many people call and try to waste the ladies time on the phone "Chatting" or just tying up their time... so most of the ladies will not permit this.

Lots of lonely guys and even more guys who are amused with annoying the ladies are out here so if you try to keep them on the phone they will assume you are one of these types of guys and avoid you.

So... "getting to know" the ladies is part of the experience. You should formerly book your time and spend the first 10 minutes (or more) of your time "getting to know" the lady better. (Not on the phone).

You are contracting the ladies for their time (this includes the time you spend "getting to know them" if that is what you like to do). By assuming you get a free 10 minutes on the phone with each booking is very wrong. It's a "cash up front" business and what you do with your time is up to you (as long as the lady is ok with what you are into as well of course).

Before making the booking you should research the lady on cerb and the more recommended she is the better time you are probably going to have. Also make sure she offers everything you are interested in. If you can not find out from cerb, her advertisements or her personal website (if she has one) you can ask before making your booking (Not all ladies will discuss options on the phone or email however so if you can not find your answer maybe post the question here for other members to answer for you like "Does Jenny123 offer daty and dfk" (See FAQ area of cerb for these and more abbreviations).

As a newbie you want your first experience to go smooth and be comfortable. Find yourself a recommended lady who is extra good with new clients and book her for at least an hour (maybe 2 or more would be better if you like to talk and get to know the lady - the exceptional ladies will take lots of time answering your questions and making you feel very comfortable).

In addition to what mod said I want to add that some ladies offer a social rate. you can pay this and go have a meet and greet and then you get to now each other. She wont mind socializing, answering your questions and giving you time if she is compensated for it.

For example my social rate is $50 , a guy might book 2 hrs letting me know 1 hr is social in which we go for dinner, coffee or drinks and then back to his room after in which regular fees apply.

A social rate is an excellent idea!!! I'd definitely take plenty of ladies up on that as I enjoy the social aspect almost as much as the sexual aspect. However I can't bring myself to pay 200+ an hour for it.

A social rate is a great idea however in some cities as this would fall under the "Municipal escort license guidelines" as a defined by the by-laws and would require you to have a "escort license". If your meeting is for a sexual encounter your a prostitute and not an actual escort by city definition. If you take money for a "Non-sexual date/meeting" you would be a "Escort" by the cities definition. (Calgary, Winnipeg, Windsor, etc... - any city with a municipal escort by-law license).

As a prostitute if the city charges you under the by-law and your intention was not sexual encounter you would have no argument for the judge and would end up having to pay the municipal by-law fee and the fine (can be a few thousand dollars).

If you plan to discuss sex options or anything prostitution related in this "Social rate time" make sure it is in private and NEVER IN A PUBLIC PLACE (That is illegal under the criminal laws)

How truly ironic that a lady could get fined for not being a prostitute!

Yes, it is.

The municipalities can license "Escorts" but it's illegal for them to license "Prostitutes" as that would fall under the "Living off the avails of prostitution" (AKA: Pimping) part of the law. So the cities find creative ways to define the term "Escort". If the lady is careful and says "I am not an escorts I am a prostitute" in her advertisements and never charges for dinner dates and social calls she would not fall under this "Escort" definition. They still get charged but the judges throw the cases out when the lady says "I am not a escort by the cities definition I am a prostitute".

If you're nervous about meeting a girl cold, there are some great ladies here where you can read their thoughts as posted in the forum and get to know them somewhat that way. Find one that tickles your fancy, send her an email or pm to check her availability and mention that you have some anxiety that you're concerned about.

These girls come across enough fellows that are nervous and the good SP's know how to make you feel at ease...it's part of the job.

You'll still be a bundle of nerves as the clock ticks down to the hour she's arriving, but that's ok. And don't worry about your performance, I'm sure it's nice for the SP to be pleased and satisfied, but the girl is there for your enjoyment. If you still have problems, focus on her. Get her excited and maybe that will get you into it and excited as well.

Besides, it sounds like you're probably a nice, considerate chap and more than anything else, that's what these girls probably appreciate the most.

An eloquent introductory email on the part of client goes a long way with many of us. Tell us a bit about yourself, your interests (non-sexual) and your background. This makes us feel more comfortable to open up with you and break the ice via email.

An eloquent introductory email on the part of client goes a long way with many of us. Tell us a bit about yourself, your interests (non-sexual) and your background. This makes us feel more comfortable to open up with you and break the ice via email.

Thank you, and thanks to everyone for all the advice. This is very helpful and honestly I did not think I would get so much response.

I appriciate it! :)

Thank you, and thanks to everyone for all the advice. This is very helpful and honestly I did not think I would get so much response.

 

I appriciate it! :)

They are a pretty good bunch of bloody blokes here! Just remember to pay the kindness forward.