What should I expect for my first time?

Hey everyone, so I am completely new to this and I will be getting my first SP within the next week or so as my friend has convinced me to try one (I've always been curious, but I'm kinda shy).

Anyways, I was wondering what I should be expecting, such as:

1) What will happen when I call the agency?

2) How much should I expect on average for about an hour?

3) What kind of services do most provide?

4) If I do an incall, would that be where the agency is or where the girl lives, or where?

5) What will happen once I get there? What I mean is do we start talking first, does she take her clothes off right away, etc.

6) If I pay for an hour, do I get her for the full hour? What if I finish early?

7) Do I bring my own condoms?

8. What are the chances that it's a set-up or something in that nature?

9) Would it be a problem if I'm only 21? Or would the she feel uncomfortable?

I'm sure most of these questions seem very dumb and silly to you, but I just have absolutely no clue in this area (never really been exposed to this kind of stuff). Any answers would be greatly appreciated!

All these questions can be answered if you read the threads here. The SEARCH button is your friend. Some of the members may reply to you but as you can imagine many people before you have asked these same questions... it's all here if you use the search button and do some reading.

Joke answer

Serious answer

1) What will happen when I call the agency?

Some one will answer the phone..........

Seriously...they will answer the phone...just tell them you are looking for (name of lady) and ask if she is available at (time)?.....yes..or no...work out a time that works for you

2) How much should I expect on average for about an hour?

About 60 minutes.......

The rate will be posted or indicated over th phone........it all depends on the lady...service....and options...

3) What kind of services do most provide?

Most provide companionship....the finer details are left between consenting adults

Most provide companionship....the finer details are left between consenting adults

4) If I do an incall, would that be where the agency is or where the girl lives, or where?

back of a car most likely........maybe a back alley if you are lucky.

Depends...if you call and indie...could be a hotel or her working address....if you call an agency...it could be a hotel...or thier working location

5) What will happen once I get there? What I mean is do we start talking first, does she take her clothes off right away, etc.

Hopefully you will not have time to talk...wink...wink.....I prefer taking thier clothes off.....

Sit down...have a chat...maybe a glass of something to drink.....it is a little odd at first...but it goes away and the time is wonderful....then depending on the conversation....if you indicate you are shy or this is your first time....the lady might take the lead...and strip you....go with the flow

6) If I pay for an hour, do I get her for the full hour? What if I finish early?

As soon as you are done she will kick your naked ass out the door.......NEXT!!!

If you loose it in a few minutes...most ladies will try to help you go again before your time is up.....if you want to leave....then leave...but sitting and talking is great....it can relax you and a post-coital cuddle is great

7) Do I bring my own condoms?

If you like........but leave them in the wrapper for her to open.......

The ladies are well prepared.....but if you have a favrite type of protection..then bring it along

8. What are the chances that it's a set-up or something in that nature?

Well...you called....you set the appointment........you go to a private location....not a public space.......and if some one answers the door in a blue uniform.....

If you stick with a well known lady or agency......chances are nill......if you do a Risky Business thing with the paper...you never know

9) Would it be a problem if I'm only 21? Or would the she feel uncomfortable?

Are you talking...length...circumference.......metric or imperial?

Ask..the lady or agency about age restrictions.......some do...some do not

but most of all read the forum...there is alot of information about the ladies and what to expect.

WOW you're way to nice ant I would have let him do some searching lol...

That was very nice! Thanks for taking the time to help out the newbie (and also a lighter side of things to entertain the rest of us)

I suggest you look in the reccomendation board of your city here on cerb and you can find what you are looking for.:boobies:

Antlerman for you to reply to a newb was a real benefit to him and others that read your post reply.

It is something to be an enquiring greenhorn and the questions he asked were excellent and your lighter side was a added treat for us.

WE were all newbs once and I can understand the anxiety in some of the questions. You do have to do some research and this board is excellent. Pick a lady who is well recommended by Senior Member on this board who appeals to you (a good indicator is you feel a stirring in your pants as you read the experience one of us had with a certain lady)

The ladies have seen it all and are very good at guiding you through your first experience. My first sp after I researched her on this board was a recommendation of Cowboy Kenny...Erica Skye....she was a sweety and I was not disappointed.

Search, read, decide....GO FOR IT!!:boobies:

Hey what a great place this is all the good advice.

Welcome to the board hun and just have fun with it.

KISSES SUZIE

Hey Boner, you're nearing 1000 posts buddy!

So StevenHynes, I would suggest you bring your own condoms as you don't want to risk getting there and finding out the girl has run out, or she only has the kind you really don't like or are allergic to or something!

If you've had sex before (all I mean is, you're not a virgin), then I'm sure within a few minutes of arriving you'll get comfortable and know what to do. Almost every SP I've seen intuitively seems to be able to read me and we always manage to get along, some better than others of course.

If you're a virgin, then you might be nervous the whole time and I can't really help you there..that's a whole other topic.

Most girls like to see the money upfront, just place it on the table once you're sure you want to stay. That's always the most uncomfortable part for me.

Sometimes I'm just all nerves and I just say "Wanna make out?" and the girl will usually laugh and reply "Yes, come over here..." and the rest is well you know....good! :-)

Good luck and be sure to report back to us!

Good Q&A.

I just wanted to chime in and say that if you have a preference in condoms, or if there are some that you don't tolerate, it's fine to say so when you make the appointment. Some women--like me--prefer to provide the condoms themselves. I'd make sure to have what you like, if at all possible.

Yes if you're part of this community the report back is important. It's not just all about you!!

As for bringing your own condoms, probably best to ask about that first. Certainly, SPs will use the protection they think is most effective, not necessarily the one you brought and like because it's thin or flavourful or whatever.

I'm told that guys occasionally have been known to try to have a free "accidental raw pop" by bringing along intentionally defective condoms cleverly re-sealed in the original package with Crazy Glue. Could be an urban myth. lol But is probably one reason many SPs perfer to use the ones they've bought themselves, unless they are bigger risk-takers than most.

If I am a newbie, and first time just want to touch and kiss the escort girl's private parts only and without sex, do I need to tell her in advance (before booking)?

Thanks advice.