Awkward Encounters in SCs

Answering Secret_Admirer's thread on the top clubs it came to me that occasionally my choice of club has been dictated by its discreteness rather than its charm :). As a (hopefully fun) topic, I was wondering what the most awkward encounter folks have had going into, out of, or in a SC.

Fortunately, my SO has never had a problem with me going to SCs (I think it gets me out of her hair for a while lol). However, when I lived in Victoria I was leaving a club that was very close to the shopping district (kind of like the Fax) and I met my mother-in-law, sister-in-law, and several nieces while they were out shopping. They were not impressed, and to this day I think they think I`m some kind of perv (well, OK, maybe the jury's out on that one).

Anyway, what`s your story?

I used to teach a first year undergraduate course (full of very young noisy engineering boys, 18-19 year olds), and while I was in a popular strip bar sitting next to the stage under the influence of wine and quietly adhoring the lady on the stage, I suddenly realized that 4 of my (noisiest) students in that course sitting there as well and pointing fingers at me and laughing:oops:. Needless to say it was very embarrasing and apparently they spread the word all over as I had real hard time controlling that classroom thereafter. Fortunately it was a term position (a one year position to fill up another who was on sabbatical leave). I never taught after that anywhere. They (18 year old engineering guys) didn't realize that I work hard and I am entitled to my fun time outside classrooms and off my working hours too.

The embarassments were not limited to SCs at that time. I was going to night clubs (discos) too and I frequently encountered my (shocked to see me) students in those places too. I was only 30 years old then (hardly older than my graduate students).

These personal (embarrassing) experiences taught me a lesson too. It has happened quite a few times over the past years that I have seen a lady dancer or escort in a public place (shopping mall, store, etc.) that I have known for long time and I always choose to pretent that I didn't know her (especially if she was with someone). I politely said hi, if and only if she initiated first (and I would advise same for everyone).

I can relate. I think teens believe that adults are hermetically sealed and put in cold storage when not otherwise required to perform some function required by the teen:cool:.

Not exactly along the same lines but close:

I took out a client out once to dinner, I was working on a large deal in Vienna. They were from Canada but I met him in Europe at a global conference that we were hosting. He came with his wife who was considerably younger than him an very very attractive. We went to dinner first.

At the table was my client (Client "A"), his wife, an executive from another very large Canadian company (let's call him client "B") sitting to my right, my boss, one of my collegues and one of our other senior executives that I worked for. From the beginning of the dinner the "eye contact" started as she was sitting across the table from me. During the conversations that were going on she kept letting slip sexual references. Then the footsies started. To be honest, I was avoiding the situation like crazy. She fell in the spectrum of the "company ink" for those who know what I mean. Her husband could see everything and acted like nothing was going on. At one point I excused myself to go to the washroom. Moments later client "B" came into the washroom and my other collegue (who was his salesrep). We double dipped the dinner since both clients knew each other well. As I was washing my hands Client "B" says to me I hope you are ready to party they are known open swingers.. good luck, she has her sights set on you.

As dinner went on she had kicked off her heels and was rubbing inside my leg. I was a bit uncomfortable but aroused at the same time. When dinner ended my boss and our Sr. Exec left for other late night meetings and parties that surround events like this. I took the group to a party we were hosting at a club. It just got more intense from there. Near the end of the night, my client came up to me and said he was tired and was leaving and wondered if I would walk his wife home later. I told him that I didn't think it was a good idea but he insisted and really wanted me to. Then he said "it's okay, I really want you to". I was still torn by the "company ink" issue. Anyhow, I threathend my collegue that if he left he I was going to make him pay severly at the office. (For those of you who watch the office I was going to torment him how Jim torments Dwight)

We finally left there, the three of us, and walked back to the Marriott where we are all staying. For those who have been to Vienna (not the Marriott at the Royal Stables, the other.. forgot the name). Around the block is an upscale SC. She insisted we go in. Since I was smashed I couldn't think of a witty enough reason to say no, so in we go. We go downstairs and the drinks keep coming. After about 45mins, out comes her husband from the champagne rooms with two of the most stunning dancers I have ever seen. He came over and kissed her as though he just ran into her at the grocery store. The other client "B" we had dinner with was there and few others I didn't know but all were clients in some form or another.

Now she asks me to go to the CR room with her and a dancer. I try to play cute and say no and she accepts my no. Wow, I thought, great. Later on in the night I go back to the washroom, on my way out I have to walk past the CR hall that leads to the private rooms. There she is standing with another dancer hottie (hungarian) and grabs my hand and leads me down the path into a private room. She pushes me down and tells me to watch. She could tell I kind of wanted out.. kind of..but also wanted to stay

Then she whispers into my ear that her husband is paying for everything and he is okay with this. Was his idea. The dancer who figured out what was going on jumped right into the role and basically violated her to her obvious enjoyment. They invented a new term for SC extras, it was quite surreal and hot to be honest. After they were done, "wife" sits on my lap and says to me that I was the first guy to hold back but that she was not finished tempting me yet. She was going to work on me over time everytime we met. We left the CR and headed back to the table. I can't remember what time it was but we all ended leaving in the early morning going our seperate ways.

As for the deal, we eventually closed it.

As for her.. I never did really play with her.. I was transferred to a new industry within my company but I am sure I will run into them again!

There is always more to the story but way too long to type! of course I left our some of the really hot details (can you tell I like to tease?) :)

As for swingers, I love them! Just have trouble crossing that "company line"

Way more stories to tell .... so little time... this one was on the tame side heheh

Happy Reading

Ran into a girl's father I was dating once.. but who hasn't lol

The job relation thing is a bummer. I agree that crossing the line can develop into huge problems. However, having worked in government for many years, I have seen many people who aren't bothered at all with fooling around with other staff including bosses. Having been one of the bosses, I always tried to keep my distances. Didn't always work because I like to party and everyone knew it. Had a blast at many parties and survived somehow. Now happily retired.

Most awkward moment for me some drunk jerk off who knew me was telling all the dancers my real name from 1st to last.

I finally had to tell the dancers that I will not get a dance with you if you call me by my real name especially if I don't know you. I told them it was disrespectful.

It made me feel so uncomfortable. That people I didn't know were coming up to me and calling me by my name. I like to use a false name in the dance club. Like on cerb.:-x:-x

Once I was at Nuden in Ottawa in the middle of the afternoon and this guy starts a sales pitch to me selling windows? siding? sheet plywood? kitchen appliances? I don't remember. I completely ignore the card he drops on my table and he gets pissed at me. I want to say "Look a-hole, I'm not here to see you" but I stay civil. I took his stupid card and dropped it on the floor when he wasn't looking. Some people! I have avoided Nuden in the afternoons ever since, which is easy since I'm usually working then anyway.

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A few years ago, me and my cousin went at Playmates for a couple of beers.

We sat along the stage and another guy was sitting close. Maybe he already had a few and he started talking to us (and I don't like chatting with strangers).

We were chatting but every time a girl was on stage to dance, he would align some $50 bills close to him and then -what a jerk-, when the girl came close, he would take the cash back and leave the girl with nothing.

At one point, he puts some cash on the stage and says to me something like: 'This is for the lady but do a dive on stage for her to gain that gift.'

I ask him if he was sure. Yes he was.

So, I lie on the stage, the lady comes up and seeing the cash, she does to me her thing and she was happy; she told me I just made her night, etc...

But the a-hole, when I was on my back on the stage, just reached and took back the cash. So, when the girl turned around, there was no more money.

When I realized that, not only was I pissed at the jerk but, I gave the girl $20 for her trouble.

Then I told my cousin we were leaving, the jerk was all sad because we were going.

Was almost begging us to stay since he was having a very fun time. Yeah, right!

That's why I'm not fond of chatting with strangers... :-)

i once went into a sc and a girl that used to babysit my children was dancing there. it was a bit awkward until we went to the cr and she got naked. somehow the awkwardness just disappeared.

joe blow....hahahahahaha.....

for me it was at a bachelor party one time....sexy girl up on stage......after her stint on stage she came over to us...sat down beside me....started chatting...then asked me to the CR...I said sure..my buddies we pissed as they all wanted to see her also.....

in the CR she does her thing......sits down for a few and asks if I remember her....????...ok..now I have to look her in the face.....well...I am not sure at this point....so another song starts.....she gets up.....turns her back to me...then bends over at the waist and looks between her legs:exagerefesses:.....she put glasses on......Oh my God.....I went to school with her....

back then she was a nice friendly girl...little bookworm type...very reserved with bagy clothes......if we only knew what was under that look........

Well I found out.......8).....came out after about 10 songs....no charge......heheheheh....and would not go near my buddies...hahhahahah.....

When i was away at school, me and my guys went to one of the local SC and there she was, a girl i went to high school with. She came and sat down for a bit, we had a few laughs and a few of my buds to her to the CR. The next morning a few of the lads came over to get me and they were surprised to see her in my apt. She was a touring stripper and she did stay over with me a few more times during my three years away.

Hi Rick.. That guys deserved a smack to the head!.. He is the reason why many women think we are jerks..

Thanks for sharing, too bad he ruined your night

A few years ago, me and my cousin went at Playmates for a couple of beers.

We sat along the stage and another guy was sitting close. Maybe he already had a few and he started talking to us (and I don't like chatting with strangers).

 

We were chatting but every time a girl was on stage to dance, he would align some $50 bills close to him and then -what a jerk-, when the girl came close, he would take the cash back and leave the girl with nothing.

 

At one point, he puts some cash on the stage and says to me something like: 'This is for the lady but do a dive on stage for her to gain that gift.'

I ask him if he was sure. Yes he was.

So, I lie on the stage, the lady comes up and seeing the cash, she does to me her thing and she was happy; she told me I just made her night, etc...

But the a-hole, when I was on my back on the stage, just reached and took back the cash. So, when the girl turned around, there was no more money.

When I realized that, not only was I pissed at the jerk but, I gave the girl $20 for her trouble.

 

Then I told my cousin we were leaving, the jerk was all sad because we were going.

Was almost begging us to stay since he was having a very fun time. Yeah, right!

 

That's why I'm not fond of chatting with strangers... :-)

Didn't you know you just described one of the all time fantasies of most men across the planet have ? I hope you went out and bought a Super 7 ticket to see if you were still feeling lucky? ;)

i once went into a sc and a girl that used to babysit my children was dancing there. it was a bit awkward until we went to the cr and she got naked. somehow the awkwardness just disappeared.

Back in 87 when I graduated College I had met a girl about 2 weeks before the big day and took her to my graduation. We were only allowed to invite 3 people to it so my parents came obviously. Our relationship did not work as well as intended, but 10 years later my father and customers decided to go for drinks at a club and she came up to him gave him a big hug and a kiss on the cheek and asked him about me.

That was the talk of the day. When he seen me the next day he asked if I knew a girl named xxxxxxxx xxxxx, I said yes that was the girl I took to my graduation and he explained the story to me. Is customer seem to be quite impress about my skills as a gigolo ( not likely ) and wanted to meet with me for some pointers.lol

She was very good looking and had the best looking butt in the industry.

I always go to the SC alone when my wife is away. Just before I got married, I ran into a coworker at the SC, and since then I've had to explain time and again that I just wanted to have some fun before getting hitched. He and other coworkers that know the story probably think I'm a perv... but I guess I am, and I still go alone regularly and have never been caught since! :)

I always go to the SC alone when my wife is away. Just before I got married, I ran into a coworker at the SC, and since then I've had to explain time and again that I just wanted to have some fun before getting hitched. He and other coworkers that know the story probably think I'm a perv... but I guess I am, and I still go alone regularly and have never been caught since! :)

But why didn't your coworker have to explain to you why he was there?

Reminds me of an old joke. "I think Fred's gay." "Really, he seems just like a regular guy just like us." "Yeah, but every time I go to a gay bar, I see him there." Lol.

I was at the Den (way back), when I was under aged. I saw my dad coming out of the champagne room with a young black chick - she had the largest set of natural tits I've ever seen. I bolted, without my dad seeing me, and have been really nervous about being spotted at clubs ever since. I didn't know my dad was a strip club kind of guy...but now I know, I suppose all men are.

YS,

I agree with your statement about the coworker presence in the SC.

When I was younger, I used to go regularly alone at SC to have a few beers and relax.

Being blessed with a phenomenal memory, I remember the faces and the dancers' names (my buddies are wondering how I can remember a girl's name even if I see her once a year...).

Anyway, if I went to a SC with a friend, I would tell him about this person or that person; yeah, I see him often here and so on.

And my friend would tell me: watch out, he may be saying the same about you... :-)

Which I didn't mind; I assume myself totally and the club is there for people to go in and enjoy themselves. And damn I did!!!

When I was a teenager my brother, who is a few years older than me, told me that every time he went to the local strip club near where we grew up he ran in to girls he went to high school with who were dancing.

So, the first time I went to that SC was shortly after I was of age, which was less than a year after I graduated from high school. I went with a buddy of mine and a mutual girl friend of ours. My buddy went to a different high school than I did in the same area. As were were going in I told him about what my brother told me.

After sitting down for about 10 minutes, sure enough my buddy sees a girl he went to high school with who was dancing. As she was walking by my buddy calls out her name. The girl looked really surprised and some awkward chit chat ensued.

Within half an hour I saw two girls I went to high school with who were dancing. I wasn't really friends with them, so it wasn't terribly awkward.

So, my brother was right. It's not like this was a really small town. There were about 40,000 people in that area. When I was in high school I had some naive sense that everyone was in the same boat, so I guess it was somewhat of a shock to see how much people's paths diverged in the short time since we graduated.

.... I guess it was somewhat of a shock to see how much people's paths diverged in the short time since we graduated.

ha ha ... or converged ...

ha ha ... or converged ...

Good point!

I ran into a work colleague as I emerged somewhat the worse (or the better) for wear after a very hot session in a local champagne room, clinging to a lovely. My colleague and I pretended not to see each other, and the matter has never come up, but we know.

This one does not involve a dancer or a patron or running into someone familiar - awkward was getting a talking to by a bouncer for answering a cell phone call (that I absolutely had to answer) - WTF - lighten up buddy - like I'm going to take a blurry, low resolution picture of a dancer. :rolleyes: