Open letter to the Hobbyists of Moncton and Area

I have been active in the hobby for well over a year now. When I first started there were scant options for those of us in the Moncton area. If I had a dollar for every post I read that started with "Anyone know of any SP's in Moncton...." I'd be rich. But not as rich as I would be if I had a dollar for every reply to that same post which said "No sorry there is nothing here etc...."

Then things began to change. Emily made a visit and began an effort to educate other SP's about the opportunities in Moncton. Other ladies followed and in that time we have had visits from some of the top touring ladies including (but not limited to) Emily, Emma, Amelia, Alley Allure, Rebecca, Victoria Jolie, Heidi, Carley Chase, GOE, and recently Chrystal French and Amanda Bella. (Please forgive me for all of the others I am sure I have forgotten).

However something is changing. I am hearing more and more from several of these ladies that Moncton is becoming a less desireable location to visit. Notably I hear about people attempting to negotiate, or complain about donation rates (none of these ladies are asking more than what is reasonable and fair) but more troubling cancellations, and even multiple cancellations.

Guys you can't have it both ways. You can't complain about the lack of ladies if your idea of a fair donation is $120 an hour. Forget this hobby. You're better off spending the $120 to load up on your favourite niche DVD's and then as the song goes "just you and your hand tonight". The going rate for donation is fair, you're paying for professionalism, discretion, non-drama, hygiene, and experience, as well as most importantly a real live beautiful lady eager to make you feel wonderful. Well worth it in my mind.

Also if you can't commit to a booking with 90% certainty (ie sick or emergency) you can follow through then don't waste everyone's time and in the process tar the serious among us with your bad manners. There is no "lay away" plan. These ladies are not cars you can "test drive" or "tire kick" in a moment of passing fancy. These are smart, well compensated professional business women who will ultimately make "bottom line" decisions about when and where and with whom they will spend their time.

In short in case you haven't got the drift, smarten up. Put your money where your mouth (or keyboard) is. Otherwise delete your profile and become a lurker if all you want to do is fantasize about being with some of the most desireable ladies in the country instead of actually experiencing it.

'Nuff said.

What Scott is saying is very sadly true but it is not only limited to Moncton, it is with other Maritime centers.

If you have no intension following through with your commitment with any touring lady why do you bother harassing them and tarnishing the rest of the hobbies that enjoy the company of these beautiful ladies?

All we are saying is follow through with your booking, you will be happy you did.

There appears to be a general consensus that this business has been going through a bit of a slower economic cycle most everywhere. (I don't know anything about the Moncton situation specifically.)

I agree that those clients who might try to leverage this overall downturn to their own short-term financial advantage, or who might feel that this situation excuses them from conducting themselves with the usual proper consideration for the ladies ... aren't doing themselves, or anyone, any good in the long run.

On the bright side, every challenge is also an opportunity for both clients and ladies to step up and find a way to distinguish themselves. One way to leave a lasting positive impression is to be extra-vigilant in not lowering your standards of good conduct. One way to leave a lasting negative impression is to do the opposite.

Good post. If you dont support the girls they will just stop comming here.

There's no need for this reprimand. The guys of Moncton were great :) I would go back in a heartbeat. Monctonians were as happy to see me and Emma as we were to see them. Perhaps it's best to let the girls speak on this issue instead of judging other hobbyists.

By the way- Moncton and Saint John are EQUALLY cool!! What's with the rivalry? I'm convinced your two cities could have a great love affair. You know what they say... petty arguing hides something much deeper.

xoxo Amelia

Perhaps it's best to let the girls speak on this issue instead of judging other hobbyists.

 

The thread is about ladies speaking to me, regarding recent experiences in Moncton. As for judging I am simply referring to the clients who either attempted to negotiate with these ladies or pulled a no-show, (not a cancellation) something I think is frowned upon by the CERB community at large.

I'm delighted that you both had a great experience in Moncton.;-)

Scott, I agree with you. I have heard this as well and it is not just Moncton area but in other areas of Canada as well. It is not only something that is present in this industry but becoming more common in the way people conduct themselves in all areas of their lives.

People want things they can't have or are not considerate of other people time or lives. Self centered. Take a look around at littering, abuse of other peoples property.

I am not saying it is all people, and I would think it is the minority. There are a lot of really good people out there as Amellia is referencing.

It is just something that happens and it is too bad when it does.

Welcome from the west. Just my $.02 and my first post.

Okay, but neither Emma nor I had any problems. I don't think I'm wrong in defending the gentlemen of Moncton. Those negotiators and no shows were not a problem for either of us. The great guys far outnumber the bad guys. And that is an opinion voiced by two actual service providers.

Projecting such a bad image of Moncton is equally damaging to the city's reputation. If you want to attract girls, stick to the positive (like my and Emma's experiences) instead of posting opinions that are not shared by everyone. No shows are bad news but they are a problem everywhere.

Monctonians, unite! xoxoxo

Amelia your positiveness about our city is refreshing! However to scott's point, there's a reason why we don't have as many traveling SPs come to Moncton as other cities, say Halifax, or Fredericton.

You would do us a great service if you were to share your positive experiences with other service providers who ask about Moncton, as the general feel that I've gotten from speaking with various SPs and Agency people is that something was wrong with Moncton.

This has caused me with great concern as we mostly depend on traveling SPs for our SP needs and if ladies just start skipping over Moncton all together that would make me (and likely many other Moncton men) very sad. While I don't want to project a bad image, I think it's equally damaging to just ignore a potential problem.

I'd call Scott's post something more akin to risk management 8)

I think this thread is appropriate to all areas of canada and not just Moncton as the problem exists everywhere.

I think this statement is the key to the whole thread.

A quick check of the advertising section shows the following ladies have toured Moncton.in the last 60 days

Emma

Amelia

Crystal

Amanda Belle

Emily

Heidi Virgin

I may have missed a few?

Not sure what the expectations are but this seems pretty impressive to me.

I understand the reason for starting the thread but personally I feel it is doing more harm than good for the city to me it is like a restaurant posting a bad review of it self

Hey Guys

Smarten up, these ladies are giving great service so don't be cheep, or you will be stuck with second rate service. Respect what they have to offer and appreciate every one of them. I have had the priviladge of being with some of them and they are first class, so don't take advantage of them but respect them. Yoy will be sorry if you don't.

George

I have spent the majority of my career in Toronto and have teetered in almost every aspect of the industry from Exotic Dancing, Massage, to escort both agency and independant. Because of dramatic increase of negoiations and lack of respect for SP (maybe due to the numbers of SP in the area) I decided to take the opportunity to come to Moncton.

Being from Newfoundland I know how laid back the east coast can be. I first arrived in November of 2009 for a few short weeks and had such a good time I returned after Christmas. In February i took advantage of the increase of free time and traveled to almost every strip club New Brunswick had to offer. In every town I met the best and most friendly people ever.

In July I decided to come back to Moncton and give a real go of making a permanent residence here. So far I have not been disappointed with anyone I have seen. The gentlemen I have met has left a real positive impact on me and I hope I have done the same for them. I look forward to the future to make some long term friends tht will help make my stay a wonderful one.

As for the comment made in the origional posting by Scott about no shows and negotiations. Any good SP knows thats those things happen from time to time and although it is disappointing to say the least its the reality of the industry. The only thing I wish is that if you cannot attend a app that you call and let me know so Im not waiting. I understand things come up and sometimes its not possible to make it to an app. there is never hard feelings for missed appointments.

When it comes to negoiations they are also expected as long as they are not ridiculous!!!! Its human nature to look for a bargain. LOL. But like everything the lower the price the lower the quality...lol. A session goes alot smoother and both enjoy it so much more when there is less talk about donations.

...Cinderella...

"done with ease but made to please!"