Question about MP

There was a good question posted up in the Escort discussion area about the appeal of greek. Well, I have the same question about the appeal of visiting MP's. I've never been to one myself. To me, for basically the same amount of $$, I could see an SP for a half-hour booking and get what to me would seem a full service package.

Is it convenience? A sense of being more faithful to a SO?

I'm curious

There was a good question posted up in the Escort discussion area about the appeal of greek. Well, I have the same question about the appeal of visiting MP's. I've never been to one myself. To me, for basically the same amount of $$, I could see an SP for a half-hour booking and get what to me would seem a full service package.

 

Is it convenience? A sense of being more faithful to a SO?

 

I'm curious

I find with an MA the pressure is off to perform. In that I mean the expectation (you put on yourself as a sort of lover) is high. With an MA (a good one) you are getting a nice massage with some intimate teasing and close body contact - yet no pressure to perform. I hate putting on a rubber. With an SP you're nuts if you don't - with an MA (who's giving a spectacular HJ) it's not necessary. I'm not in the younger age bracket so being pampered for an hour by a beautiful lady (with a nice body) and a great happy ending goes way further than a slam-bang. To be sure you have to have the right MA and there are some nice gems in this town if you check around. I suppose if you find the right SP you can have all of the above as well but typically the encounter with them is not as relaxing. IMHO that is.

u have to try a MP to find out...

but an avg 30mins with a SP vs an avg 30mins with a MP u might as well go with FS.

But if you compare an avg 30mins or even longer with a spectacular MP then you might find you enjoy the MP much better...

So not that I'm an expert but I'd go with CMJ or someone along that level of quality like Michelle or BridgetX and see for yourself...

It's just different. It's more about the massage, the sensual touching is a bonus. I've actually been interested in this whole "Tantric Massage" idea and have been doing a little reading on it. Haven't seen it advertised around Ottawa but it definitely looks interesting. There is a place for both sensual massage and FS in my schedule, especially once you've met the talented ladies that participate on this forum.

In my experience, you just can't find a comparable SP experience at the same price point as an amazing MP experience. What I mean is that you can have a relaxed, intense, teasing, non-rushed 45 min - 1 hour with a great MPA for 100-120. Find me the equivalent great time from an SP for that much time for 120. Not possible.

Secondly, its nice to lie back, and be pampered for once. Have a nice relaxing massage, chit chat, and a sexy non-rushed finish. In my experience, an SP who you are paying 100 or 120 is definitely more concerned with getting out the door asap. Pretty much hurry up and finish already.

Thirdly, there is no chance of virus transmission at an mp. Call me a germ-o=phobe but, No worries about unclean daty, broken condoms, or overall paranoia.....

Equivalent amazing experiences are readily available from SPs, but usually at about twice the price. So, depending how much you want to spend, the quality is there....

Just my opinion...

The differences between a quality SP and MP experience are many-fold.

I am not going to discuss rub-and-tug MP or quickie BJ SP experiences as I do not get much pleasure from them. This is not snobbery or a diss upon these services - it is merely that my penis stopped being the focal point of my sexual experience when I hit 28 or so. The odd time that I renege, I feel unsatisfied. For me, it's all about the pampering vs. interaction.

If I want to lie there with quiet music and have a gorgeous woman massage every aching muscle with perfect pressure and relaxation techniques, there is no greater experience than (e.g.) Emily at Body Care. I have seen her at least 30 times over the past several years, and we connect.

If I want to be seduced as a submissive - just to be teased, tormented and pampered, but with more sexuality than a massage, that is when I visit a non-FS massage experience. And for many years, that was the limit of the experiences I desired.

If I want an interactive fully sexual adventure with a charming woman, a fantasy over which I can reflect for several days and still shudder with delight over the memory, I would visit one of the classy women SPs who frequent CERB. I do this rarely (I'm not rich) but I immerse myself in the experience.

Three different experiences with three different establishment types and three different outcomes. But... the major important thing here for me is a connection between the lady I see and myself. That seals the fantasy experience for me, and the erotic experience becomes better.

The main difference for me is that with the SP there is no mystery or challenge. You get what you paid for to put it bluntly. Either experience is as good as you want, but with a MP you get pampered (that's what you pay for) and how far the extras go is between you and the MP. So in essence there is still room for a form of seduction as nothing other than the HJ or BJ is expected.(depending on the MP) So if you get more it's because she WANTS to and not because she HAS to, which is good for the self-esteem I guess.

Didn't mean to ramble for my first post, just my 2 cents.8)

Well, for a first post it was a genuinely interesting response. Of the few close friends in my life that know of my hobby their general reason for not participating is along the same lines. They want the ego boost that goes along with seducing a woman and view the escort experience as being too much of a guarantee. Even though YMMV with SP's, ending up having vaginal intercourse isn't the mileage that varies. The seduction aspect obviously isn't a need of mine but I was truly unaware of this aspect of the MA game.

I've actually been interested in this whole "Tantric Massage" idea and have been doing a little reading on it. Haven't seen it advertised around Ottawa but it definitely looks interesting. .

http://myweb.ecomplanet.com/ELDI6009/

http://myweb.ecomplanet.com/ELDI6009/

WOW my dreams have been answered lol! Will CMJ be doing Tantric onsite at any point or just outcalls?

When I go to an SP, it's becasue I want something special (squirting, or daty, or greek, etc0; I have a craving I want satisfied.

When I go to an MP it's because I want to be pampered a bit, and sometimes be surprised by the outcome. I have gotten fs, or been allowed to give daty totally unexpectadly, and that gives a special sort of satisfaction to me.