Strip Bars Versus Escorts - Which one is more heavenly?

I have been thinking about starting a thread asking those members who try both strip bars and escorts to comment. Which one is more fun. The strip bar or escort?. They both have their pros and cons.

For example yesterday I chose strip bar option (I was at Playmate for better mileage, but usually Barbarellas is my favorite) I spent about $300 but I was with two blondes, two brunetts, a very young black girl and another young oriental girl (variety is what I really like) for a total of about 15 songs (a total of about 60 minutes) I also enjoyed many nude girls on the stage at the same time chatting and drinking with my favorite girls. I had real good time lasting hours. Whereas with escorts I spent the same amount but with only one girl for (usually less than) an hour. But on the other hand, having a girl in my apartment all nude with no limits on her (GFE SPs) and full light is the ultimate pleasure that nothing can match that :-). So it is a tough call as which one is better than the other.

In my case, over the past year when I adopted the new hobby (and before it was strip club only), I call for escorts 3-4 times a month and once a month I go back to strip bars to see my long time friends there. I know plenty of girls in SCs and I don't want to completely lose track of them. But every Saturday around noon I have a tough time making up my mind which option to choose for my weekend entertainment and recently I am becoming more inclined towards the old habit (strip bars) than the new one (escorts).

The best option of course is a combination of both (going to strip bar, see many nude girls, have your favorites dance for you, kiss and hug many, get all the nerves tense and then come back home and call for your favorite escort). but not many (myself included) can afford this option on a regular basis.

Escorts hands down! Here's why: PrettyPaige22, Catherine St. Claire, Brianna (PK) and all the lovies I haven't met yet lol.

There is a time and place and need for both - personally I see the Strip Bars scene as something to partake in with a bunch of the guys (guys night out), knowing there is limited mileage. The escort aspect (which I prefer) is my avenue to indulge.

I haven't been in a strip bar in years. Much prefer the full meal deal. And as you note, with limited budgets, the maximum bang for the buck, as it were, suits me best.

But you do make a really good point about the amount of variety in bars, just spread a little too thinly for my taste. And as Seymour points out, they are also good for group events. Although ideally, I prefer my group events to be more intense and private.

I used to go to the clubs all the time. But since coming into the hobby, whats the point. You get more than you can handle and good conversation fro the same price.. Its a no brainer..

My wife is well aware that I go to strip clubs so she'd just laugh if a friend "revealed" that they saw me go into one, and I won't be catching anything to bring back to her from strippers instead of escorts. Outcalls wouldn't be a good option at all for me as I live in an apartment and know several neighbors. I'm not claiming any "righteousness" here, far from it, just pointing out that everybody is in a different situation.

Strippers also don't "provoke" the problem of performance anxiety that I'm sure I'm not the only guy to ever have.

As well as going to MP's, and here is my take on it...

SP's...this option gives you the sure thing. You know that you are getting what you want. Value for your dollar is awesome.

MP's..what I like about mp's is the pampering of me. Also, the "YMMV factor" is very alluring. It's awesome to go to an MP that says "no DATY", but when you are there, she changes her mind. It's a great ego boost. For me, it's kind of like a hunt...seeing if you can push the limits a bit.

There is a similar attractiveness to SC's. Going in there . seeing rules posted, etc, and still giving digits, maybe some daty, maybe a hj or bj, and sometimes maybe even some fs. I don't think I have ever been to a club without getting off in one of these ways.

I like them all, but seek different things on different days.

I rarely use SPs. I prefer the clubs. I'm a voyeur at heart so watching and being teased by multiple women is the thing for me.

I tend to prefer the SC's, but I do see the occasional SP when I'm feeling practical. I know from a monetary pov it doesn't make a lot of sense and I agree with Amber that it is similar to window shopping. But on those instances that extras are offered I personally love it. That whole public/risk of being caught aspect to it just adds excitement.

Thanks for the comments lady and gentlemen. I appears that so far it is about two-third in favor of escorts and one-third prefer strip bar variety. No wonder I am so two-hearted as which one to choose every Saturday afternoon. Please keep your input rolling.

i'm thorn between the 2, was never refuse for a dance by a dancer but got stood up by sp's without even a call. more bang for the buck with escort but might get stood up. when you leave the cr you still want more. might be leaning towards sp just because of the full service.

I like both as they are different experiences. An escort is great for some one on one time. A strip club is more of a tease and can be exciting with more variety, it's the game.

Variety is the spice of life, get out there and experience it all or taste it all.

I was only doing strip clubs for a long time, but then it started to get boring - I thought it would be better to try the sp experience for guaranteed fs. So did that for a while, but it was not nearly as exciting as I thought it would be :cry: - there was no challenge, or the setting was just not very interesting, or it lacked that element of risk - not quite sure. Keep a mixture of both now - really prefer it at the strip club when you find a new and attractive dancer, and go in the champagne room and see what transpires... But I also enjoy seeing sp's too still, but I find it is worth it only if she is exactly the type I really like.

In my younger age I use to go to stip bar, but now with the drinking and driving its a no no. Another point for me is the higene , sp have accest to shower or they will bath between costomer. This is why so manny of us like to be the first client of the day.

What works best for me is to head to a strip bar (Barefax or Barbs' usually) for an hour or so - maybe get a few dances, maybe not - to amp my sexual energy up just a bit, then make my way to my scheduled SP. Don't know if that'll work for everyone though.

What works best for me is to head to a strip bar (Barefax or Barbs' usually) for an hour or so - maybe get a few dances, maybe not - to amp my sexual energy up just a bit, then make my way to my scheduled SP. Don't know if that'll work for everyone though.

Yes as I mentioned earlier this is the best option. However, it is something that I can do only on special occasions rather than regularly (every weekend) because of the cost associated with this option (normally double the usual cost of having either escort or strip bar).

What works best for me is to head to a strip bar (Barefax or Barbs' usually) for an hour or so - maybe get a few dances, maybe not - to amp my sexual energy up just a bit, then make my way to my scheduled SP. Don't know if that'll work for everyone though.

That sounds like a good start to your night.

I'm not sure if that could work for me. With my luck I'd find some little hottie to keep me busy all night and I would completely forget about the appointment with the SP.

I've only been to a strip bar once. It was really creepy as it was full of really old guys just drooling at the women but no touching allowed. it seemed pointless and i got out of there for fear that i might get dry humped or something LOL.

My motto is : If i can't try it out, why bother staring at it?

Yes as I mentioned earlier this is the best option. However, it is something that I can do only on special occasions rather than regularly (every weekend) because of the cost associated with this option (normally double the usual cost of having either escort or strip bar).

I've made that mistake a few times. If I do spend $$$ on lap dances, I now keep the cash spent equal to or less than the SP appointment. So far it's worked for me, as I now spend less money that way, than on my massive strip club jags years ago but have way more fun.

I'm at the point now where I'll stick with my regular dancers mostly, and rarely get dances with new girls. I prefer to taste new SP delicacies now....

Back in the $10 dance days, I'd go to a SC once/week and almost never SPs.

Ever since they changed to $20, it has reversed.

I enjoyed going to the Playmate and playing "let's see who has the best milage". I had a couple regulars that I really enjoyed and everything was good. Until the $20 dances. Then I would always leave the SC thinking that I did not get my money's worth. I'd spend more time afterwards thinking about where the rent money would be coming from rather than how much fun I had that evening. So I quickly stopped going. However, whenever I am in Montreal, I'll drop into Cleopatras. Once I even drove to Montreal for the sole reason of getting $10 lap dances at a SC. With gas, food, lost work time it probably came out to the same price but it just FELT better.

Now to make Mr. Happy happy, SP can fill the need at a fraction of the cost.

I've only been to a strip bar once. It was really creepy as it was full of really old guys just drooling at the women but no touching allowed. it seemed pointless and i got out of there for fear that i might get dry humped or something LOL.

 

My motto is : If i can't try it out, why bother staring at it?

Thanks for letting us know what SC's are like on the East Coast!

Thanks for letting us know what SC's are like on the East Coast!

East coast?

No no no.. This was back in 1992 in Ottawa!!!! LOL

East coast?

 

No no no.. This was back in 1992 in Ottawa!!!! LOL

Sorry, I assumed. It actually describes many SC's.

I miss the SC scene and although I have found that escorting scene is more intimate (but the fun time is a lot shorter) but may not be necessarily a lot more fun.

I mean looking at all those naked angels while drinking and then chatting with them (and using the imagination to see them naked while they sit at your table and then choosing the most attractive ones and taking them to the back and kissing and touching them (almost) all over (This must be how heaven would look like :-)) and then after a while making friends with them, inviting them out or home for private dances, I miss all these real fun.

Since I have swiched to escorts I have almost stopped going to SCs. I am planning a short pause over summer months from escorts and a temporary return to SCs for the sake of good old days may be.